2006-09-01 17:53:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you think?
What's the purpose of a strip club? Cheap alcohol and great food? No dear. He's going to covet strippers. Unless you share the same values as your boyfriend, it's time to stop dating. Read, travel, experience many people and understand their cultures. Never stop educating yourself. In about 15 years from now when you know where you want to settle down at and what value's you treasure...go find a Man who shares those same values.
2006-09-01 17:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by cleazott 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course - as long as you don't have any reason to NOT trust him. Don't be in too much control, it's not a good thing. Let him still be a MAN as long as he is YOUR MAN.
But at the same time, if it is something that honestly bothers you (other than natural insecurity) then this is the perfect time to have a talk and clarify boundaries for both of you.
I'm assuming this isn't a every weekend thing for him?? And there's nothing wrong with you insisting on going to a male review somewhere down the line. What's good for one is good for the other. Just make you both follow the same rules.
A cute tip or two to tell him, though. Ask him to bring his pocket calender with him. Because it's the only way he'll get a "date" out of those places. Also practice the museum rule: Look but don't touch, or you'll be paying for it!! Museums can be great, or on the other hand, they can be very expensive!! =P
2006-09-02 01:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once in awhile should be OK, but if it is a regular thing then I would say there is a problem...
If you don't want him to go, you should go with him once or twice if your not sure what goes on in there (yes many women go to the strip club) and try to do those things for him to keep him at home. If he is just going with some friends to have a good time (and again not on a regular basis) then it should be fine.
2006-09-02 00:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Skinny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! As long as he's a distant watcher and not there to touch or try to hook up with anyone. Ask to see if it's okay to go with him! I actually went with my boyfriend to strip club and we had a great time together! I was more interested in the girls than he was!
2006-09-02 00:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you're comfortable with it and he's only doing it to get hot for you alone. Personally, I encourage my husband to bring a playmate home, but it's with an understanding that I'm his mate and come before any other woman. Plus, I'm an odd woman...in a very loving and happy relationship.
2006-09-02 01:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by erythisis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BAD IDEA IF UR MAN HAS TO GO TO A STRIP CLUB TO SEE NACKED CHICKS ITS CAUSE HE DONT LIKE WHAT HE IS SEING AT HOME ANYMORE NO MATTER HOW MUCH U TRUST HIM A GUY IS A GUY AND ALL OF THEM CANT KEEP THERE HANDS TO THEM SELVES
2006-09-02 01:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by sonia s 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends what age he is 25 and under I guess occasionally. Girl if he's not your husband don't stop him.It would be diffrent if he were your husband then thats diffrent. Thats a real commintment ......Let him do what he's got to do because you don't want him stopping you from things right.....
2006-09-02 01:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i wouldnt allow my boyfriend to go to a strip club..unless i was with him.
2006-09-02 00:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by AdioSurfChick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah its ok its also ok for u to come over and strip for me ,right?
2006-09-02 01:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by myke4urnot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not ok for mine but if you're comfortable with it then let him go.
2006-09-02 00:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋