we both love eachother to bits, have the upmost trust for eachother and well yeah I just want to know what yoy people think.
Will it work out or not and please only serious adults answer-this isn't some childish question.
I live in Australia and she lives in the USA.
2006-09-01 17:49:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes we plan on getting together.
shes moving out here just after new year and in response to one of the answers I am sure about this and all I asked was did you think it was going to work not do you think I trust her or not...
2006-09-01 18:09:11 · update #1
Interestingly enough, I live in the USA and the man I love lives in Australia.
I'm here to tell you that long distance relationships can definitely work! Ours has lasted for several years, and we do intend to get together permanently someday.
True love and trust are the vital elements. If you have both of those, you can make it work.
Good luck to you both.
2006-09-01 18:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always had serious doubts about long distance relationships because when you love someone so much and they can't be there all the time to "receive" your love...you start to get lonely. And the only way to ease this loneliness is to find someone to fill that spot. This is where temptation comes in and sometimes even the most faithful people don't mean for these things to happen. Honestly, I think long distance relationships are at SERIOUS risk of failure. Why are you guys in different countries? One of you should seriously move closer to the other if you love each other so much that you want to spend the rest of your lives together. But that's something you have to figure out first...how much you love each other and how long you want to be together.
As long as you guys keep each other first in your lives, you'll be ok until she moves in with you. Communication is the key to a succesful relationship. Whether it's phone conversations, emails, instant messages, snail mail. 4 months may seem like a long time, but you guys can do it if you try. Maybe even plan a visit before she moves in with you. I think you guys will work out if you try.
2006-09-01 17:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not work. Face the facts. Everyone always thinks they're the exception to the rule when they are the rule. Long distance relationships don't work.
Take a break and see other people. If the time comes when you can be close together -- then consider dating.
2006-09-01 17:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can actually see eachother a good amount then yes, if not not sure, trust is the most important thing and if ya lose it ya lose but anythin can happen and ya never know mite even get to be closer liven some day, also the heart is fonder when apart, need to know if together and apart can still make it, as long as ya have plans to be together some day and both are willin to wait then yes, good luck and hope some one can have the real thing.
2006-09-01 17:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will if you make it work out. The relationship thrives on the two qualities that you both have love and trust, whats important is that you let it be that way and increase the curiosity and anxiety to meet if you haven't and if you have then meet more often. When you meet enjoy each moment so that you regret the separation and make you even more eager to meet again.
2006-09-01 17:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Pat Wardhan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are always different when you see them day in and out, once you get together don't rush in with serious committments until you have seen eachother in all circumstances...get to KNOW them properly....not like me.....What a disaster, it's easy to believe everything you hear in a letter or call but the relationship has no stress when your not together. Seeing is believing!
2006-09-02 05:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mark B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking this question suggests to me that you have your own doubts about this. You love this person and they love you, so one of you has to move. I started my relationship long distance, he lived in England and I lived in Canada. He moved here. Point being that if you are to have any kind of proper sustaining relationship, you gott actually be together to share your lives. I don't know what the two of you do for a living and how difficult it would be for one (or both for that matter) of you to move, but I think you should seriously consider it and talk to him/her about it.
2006-09-01 18:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by ravencrow163 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a long distance relationship. I had others in the past that didn't work out. This time there is no anxiety or nervousness. I just know it is going to work out. If you feel that peace as well, you'll be fine.
2006-09-01 17:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep been on an prolonged distance relationship for approximately 2 years. it rather is annoying to get our schedules fastened and we dont have as plenty time mutually as we used to through artwork and the time distinction yet as long as the two events exert the attempt to make the relationship artwork.
2016-11-23 18:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it can last in the long term. If you two are serious I would find a way to be together...ask yourself is this person important enough in your life to move for?
2006-09-01 18:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋