2006-09-01 17:48:04 · 17 answers · asked by littlemama975 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know what you mean, i ask this question a couple of weeks ago, and they told me at church, i been to churches, grocery stores, happy hour, you name, i guess we have to sit back and wait, i guess when the time is right we'll meet one :)
2006-09-01 17:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on your definition of "good."
Here are the possible reasons:
1. You are too picky.
2. You are not picky enough to weed out the "bad" men.
3. You don't look in enough places or haven't found him yet.
In case of each possible reasons.
1. Open your parameters a little and see if you really want to be with someone... look past some of the little things.
2. Look for character traits that make you think that your person will do good things for you and your family before you accept them into your life.
3. Ask friends for people to meet, look online at Yahoo! Personals or Plentyoffish.com... do a little looking and don't just be the princess in the tower.
Good luck!
2006-09-02 00:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by RedHaiku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say this its hard to meet a good man because many guys today r very self centered and have bad inner qualities. their generally r very shallow and focus too much on the looks. and the society's mainstream image of a "good man" is so stereotypical like buffness, looks, charm, etc, there r a lot of good guys out there who r not that attractive physically, rich, or as ppl say it:tight. its tough these days for a real good man to get what he deserves.
2006-09-02 01:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are plenty of good men out their. If your mind is set that their isn't any good men out their then you wont ever meet one. A good man don't want a negative woman, maybe thats probably why you haven't found one.
2006-09-02 00:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lady that says Good men are hard to find and hard men are good to find. I'm guessing she means it can go either way!
2006-09-02 00:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you overlook all the good men. The nice guys in other words. Girls go for jerks, that's why alot of nice guys feel they have to act like jerks to get girls. And they do.
2006-09-02 00:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Greg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not hard to find. only if you can be a good woman also! just don't do things that you don't want others do unto you! for sure you will find a good man....
2006-09-02 00:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you look so hard; got to keep up with your girlfriends.
2006-09-02 00:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by charles j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. They are so hard to find. I wonder if there even is any out there! If there is, THEY NEVER FIND ME!!
2006-09-02 00:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase u havent meet me
2006-09-02 00:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by help drum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋