won't live?
2006-09-01 17:38:31 · 9 answers · asked by LarryGuy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Explain that u will always be with him no matter what happens. And try to spend each day like it was ur last. I know that might sound bad, but if it happens, leave him with happy memories. My thoughts and prayers are with u.
2006-09-04 14:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by tina12879 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother was diagnosed with cancer twice. It was when I was really young, in elementary school. She has now been in remission for about 13 years. I don't know how a mother should handle her son...comfort him, I think it is wrong that she came out and said she probably wont live...she should reassure him that she will fight through it and will make it through the hard treatments, and be healthy again.
2006-09-02 00:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by snsheley0415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I found out one of my parents had cancer, I would probably cry a lot. I'm 15 too. I have no idea how to handle that situation. I hope the mother can overcome this cancer. I am very sorry.
2006-09-02 00:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but I think it's great that you (Or the mother. I'm not sure if you're tlaking about yourself.) told him the truth. My Mom was diagnosed with cancer, when I was 10, and died of it when I was 12, and I think it would have been alot harder, had I not known that was probably going to happen, and not been able to prepare myself. It's a hard thing to hear. Very scary, and such, but he needed to hear it.
2006-09-02 01:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to let him know upfront that you may not live than to tell him that you will live and then have him be angry for lying to him. Comfort him. Have him help you make plans on living arrangements (If his father is not involved in his life) If you are going for treatments, possibly have him go with you, and have him go with you to your doctor appointments so he can understand that your doctors are doing all they can to help you. My cousins were only 6 & 8 when my uncle died and they were angry because they were not told ahead of time that he was not going to live.
2006-09-02 00:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those times when a true belief in God helps. You will see him again in better circumstances. You should never give up the hope of remission, either. Miracles do still happen.
2006-09-02 00:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a support group of friends and family to assist you with this work spiritual groups also help a son to realise that evevtually human bonds on earth are just meant for a while...our heavenly father is awaiting our return back to Him.
2006-09-02 08:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by bubbly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The son is acting like a B|TCH and should be slapped.
2006-09-05 18:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Gene 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love him and god bless you..
2006-09-02 01:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by cool k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋