i really love this guy who goes to my church
i talk to him on AIM but he never talks to me in church he just smiles! what do i do?
2006-09-01 17:19:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pray that he'll talk to you! Or next time you're talking to him on AIM ask him if he'd like to sit next to you next time you both are in church. Or, tell him how you feel next time your chatting online!
Good Luck!
2006-09-01 17:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is written with some serious intent. SO! Please...Never give us guys more credit then we deserve. If you want to catch a guy's attention? You should make your intentions clear. You should appeal to the lower animistic senses. Sorry its true. Physical appeal, such as flirting, is a great ice breaker and sometimes needed to get the ball rolling nicely. So, my advice is to talk to your girl friends about the best flirting technique in your social circle. Not too much but there has to be something. Male sexual instincts are tough for guys to overcome...it strikes both at both beggars and kings and crosses all lines of races and culture, and yes including Christians too.
2006-09-01 17:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find where he likes to go and show up there. Look often in his face, you must giving him a sign that you like him. Normally don't make full of yourself, discretion please. Step by step when he have any emotions for you he is gonna show that, when not live him alone, have other nice guys to, I'm not of this modern women's to crash on the mans first without any respect for themselves. You can find the man on any corner. We having the power over them, remember this.
2006-09-01 17:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Vavo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that he just simply doesn't like you the way that you want him to like you?
the best thing is just to go to him and say hallow and ask him about his faith you know ? and just start a conversation,
try to pot on him questions that he must say more than yes or no and just carry on talking, then you will know ,
the other solution is just to ask him, Hum why not?
2006-09-01 17:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by santa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him face to face or you can pull him to the side at church and tell him how you feel.
2006-09-01 17:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by rellscee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid go up to hym and start talking the only difference between talking to hym online and talking to hym in church is u can see hym dont be afraid if he can talk to u online he should be able to talk to u not online so go make the first move
2006-09-01 17:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the ice and talk to him. He's probably just as shy as you are. Just talk about something in the Bible or something that's not related to your crush.
2006-09-01 17:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Little Hulk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back a second, please. You LOVE a guy who won't even talk to you? I think it may be a little more hormonal than emotional. Talk to him in person, if he still won't talk to you, you may want to really revise your fantasy about this guy.
2006-09-01 17:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you find out what he like best or what his favorite thing is.
and then just talk about that. start a conversation with that. and go on from there.
2006-09-01 17:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like a guy at Church as well. he looks at me but he doesn't look at me like he use to look at me. before he would just stair at me. all most forever. i don't talk to him. and his dad always kisses me. (not on the lips.ew...) and hugs me. i think he wants me to go out with his son. but i all most think that his son doest like me any more. his dad introduced us to each other. i dont know what to do as well..... i want to talk to him but then i dont. i dont know what to do. ahh!!!!!
2006-09-01 17:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋