My daughter is 13 years old and she has friends that are supposedly going out with boys. I would ask her, "What do they do when they go out? ...She says that they do nothing..they are just known as boyfriend and girlfriend. I;ve seen one girl who is "going out" with this boy and she doesn't even talk to the kid. What is that?!?! (and I've witness this)...To my knowledge from when I was a kid, who went to the movies, or out to eat, hung out at the park, went over each others houses,etc. Is this some kind of new thing going on today? They are going out but yet they don't do these things.......I don't get it. No dates????
2006-09-01 16:44:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My daughter tells me everything..she's even standing right next to me. She;s curious about what other people have to say about these weird relationships.
2006-09-01 17:00:17 · update #1
as a 14 yr old girl i would say that ur daughter is right shes still in middle scl and no1 understands the relationship even the ppl in it.... once she gets 2 high scl you will both understand that the influence of the ppl around u is huge wen ur in middle scl one girl may say o0o0o i got a bf then all the other girls will want guys just so that they could say that they have a bf
2006-09-01 16:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i remember being a freshaman and i had a boyfriend,we went to the movies, i was nervus so i took my cousin along with us we sat thru the whole movie and did not talk at all. it took until the movie was almost over before we finally held hands. he drove us back home and he left, that was it. we passed notes in school, inbetween classes. that was the whole relationship. i don't even remember breaking up.
2006-09-01 16:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by angie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 13 and it depens really becuase my friend was with this boy for ages but they neaver even talked to each other, but when im going out with a boy i like to hang about with them, go to the cinema, hold hands, kiss.
2006-09-01 16:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, yeah, um funny that you ask your daughter. Don't ask coz you're going to annoy her, she's going to get better at lieing. Better check out some teen blogs to get a hint.
2006-09-01 16:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, they are way too young to be thinking about dating. Going out in groups is fine but not alone. Why rush kids to grow up? They shouldn't be thinking about dating, peer pressure to have sex, etc. Let em be kids.
2006-09-01 16:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
they can't even drive, how are they supposed to go out on dates? it's just a silly game really. "going out" means you are boyfriend and girlfriend. you hold hands at the lunch table or you walk to class together. Like I said, it's just a silly little game.
2006-09-01 16:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your a mom your not suppose to know. My mom doesn't even know the kind of stuff that I do b/c its none of her buisness. She is my friend my mom but the thing is I can tell her somestuff but not alot of stuff. I can talk to her about boys but not about sex or what I've done with boys.I'm 16 and I daited 17 boys in my whole life.
2006-09-01 16:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
no her friend and the kid are probably jsut going out to go out and thats about it
2006-09-01 16:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooooooooo bad for you i will hate to go on how bout you get used to nanna
2006-09-01 16:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by muffin pirate XD 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they know what they do but at this age everything is sacred they keeo it confidential, becareful.
2006-09-01 16:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋