I happen to be able to orgasm pretty quikly when having sex. in like 5 maybe 10 minutes. then My b/f will go for like an hour. I get sore after that long. I've tried to tell him but I think he thinks it's a great thing that he can last so long. What do I do?
2006-09-01 16:27:15 · 33 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him a couple of years...
Most of us guys start out 15 second wonders, then learn to control it and think it's AMAZING to be able to go all night, then realize it comes down to "You're satisfied, I'm satisfied, great! Water? No? OK, good night baby."
2006-09-01 16:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men get really hung up on stuff that just doesn't matter, like marathon staying power or the size of their balls. I suggest trying to talk to him about it when you guys aren't anywhere near having sex, as it might not sink in in the moment. (Also, if you ask him to go ahead and finish when you guys are doing it, he might get some performance anxiety and take even longer). If he still tries to hold out for an hour, try to speed him up with quick thrusting, muscle contractions, moans, nails in the back, or whatever else you think might put him over the top. If that still doesn't do it, then it's time to invest in some lube, because you are going to need it. Or just dump the guy and look for someone with less stamina (but hopefully your relationship is about more than just the sex). Best of luck.
2006-09-01 16:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You clearly need to communicate with him. You two are on two completely different sexaul levels. This is not a bad thing, and do not interpret it as a bad thing. Your preferences and experiences are different. If you communcate with him, he will understand that you finish before him. Maybe have slower and more passionate sex instead of constant intense marathon sex. You will prolong your arrousal and he will too. Also, you will avoid soreness if you change position so your muscles dont set and cramp up. Also, it sounds dumb, but keep hydrated. If you are hydrated (before you finish) it will give you a time to pause and prolong your orgasm.
2006-09-01 16:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by Knick101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love the sex, but you're not a marathon sex machine like he is. Tell him you need to take some cuddling breaks or something, then after awhile, assume the position.
2006-09-01 16:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by Omar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, stop after you orgasm. After the first couple of times he will get the message. More importantly stop having sex with your boyfriend, it is against God's law and will lead you to sorrow. Stop, then get married, if you are not ready for marriage, then stop having sex!
2006-09-01 16:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Russ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of for play before having sex? Maybe you should try to interest him in something else and shortin his hour down to half hour. If that does not interest him you then have a problem and I guess just get use to it.
2006-09-01 16:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not weird and wonderful. actually, i think of there should be greater adult adult males such as you. such lots of girls finally end up having their hearts broken or forced into some thing they don't desire to do via fact they're so loopy a pair of boy, however the sole ingredient he's loopy approximately is intercourse. despite female you finally end up with ought to be relieved which you do not desire to get of their pants. that's lots of rigidity on a female and might do some intense harm. you mustn't have lots difficulty looking a female who loves you:)
2016-12-14 16:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-astroglide to the rescue!
2-help him understand like he doesn't HAVE to last just to make YOU feel good, and that that's one of the great things about you coming so quickly, he's free to enjoy himself at the same time or soon after, emphasis on SAME, lol!
3-get loud with moaning or telling erotic stories and descriptions after you've had your O so that it might hurry him up AND increase his enjoyment too.
2006-09-01 16:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Lips 4077 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sure it is a matter of him lasting long and not the fact it just takes him that long to get off? Maybe he is embarassed to tell you.
2006-09-01 16:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do more exercises so you can go longer. Once you adapt, you'll be thanking him after that 7th orgasm during your marathon session.
2006-09-01 16:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Whattup Doc? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋