My girl friend talked about a break up before she was leaving for vacation we said we will talk about it next time we c eachother coz i wanted to know wuts rong n sutff however she took off b4 we gotta chance to go on a date, she came back a month later n called me coz i think i had emailed her like a long time ago to call me back when she gets the email, (she had no access to internet while she was abroad). So when she talked whe just talked bout random stuff n skool startinn soon n how was ur trip blah blah , she said she has to go after like 45 minutes, and through out the convo she didnt mention anything about us, i think she thinks we are over and she was like asking me so HOW ARE U?, I don;t whether i should call her back at this point like tomoro and even if I do what am i gonna say? Hey u kno we actually didnt break up yet.... P.S this whole month i didnt go out with ne one coz i thought im still with her :S. IM LOST... plz help
2006-09-01 16:26:45 · 9 answers · asked by coooollguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where were guys like you when I was in school?
2006-09-01 16:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat her like ****. but be nice about it. make fun of her big forehead or beer belly. anything she might be self conchis about. but make sure you say "but I think its cute" after wards. This will break down her "I'm better then you" wall. Then act like she doesn't mean much to you example- when she calls sound disappointed or ask "who is this" or "whats your name again" and don't ever let them know that you have there number. On your caller ID, cell phone, a pocket phone book, a gum wrapper. Always keep asking for it... This makes them feel like they need to make a lasting memory with you. It makes them wonder "why doesn't he think about me. and as a end result she will think about you constantly.
P.S. You'll probably get some pretty good head out of it too
2006-09-01 16:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ben Quick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's through. Just to be sure, be kind of aloof, not necessarily the cold shoulder, but don't go out of your way to see her in school, wherever. Don't call her, don't email her. Rehashing why she wanted to break up is pointless. Once someone decides to split from another, you just seem pitiful and childish whining about why. If she goes out of her way to let you know, even though you've given her her space, that she wants to be around you, then she's not through. Otherwise...
2006-09-01 16:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my thought is do call her and talk casual and then maybe ask her if she would like to go too dinner or something? That could be one way of finding out if you are indeed in a relationship with her, Cause she would say something different if your not in a together..
2006-09-01 16:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Daisy_Duke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you need to call her and just say since you are back from yur vacation would you like to go out with me saturday night so we can talk and i can here all about your vacation and if she says yes then you two are still a couple if she says no then ask her when a good time will be and if she says she will have to get back to on that then you know it is time to move on good luck
2006-09-01 16:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reminder. She has moved on.
You should talk to her and let her know how you felt about the status of your relationship with her. You think both of you are attached,, but she could have just left it as it is before she goes off,,, she is likely to take it that both of you have broken off., and are friend now.
2006-09-01 16:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She totally doesn't think you two are together.
You are broke up.
But, that doesn't mean you can't go out. If you want to go out with her, call her and ask her. But, if she doesn't want to, don't sweat it, and move on.
Now, if she DOES go out with you...do not mention anything about the relationship!!
Okay? Why? Because, I already told you what happened. You are broken up. Instead, you go out with her, and tell her you'll call her. Then, call her again to go out again, and on that 2nd date, ask her if she wants to get back together (not on the first one).
2006-09-01 16:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by rod_j_clifton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta ask her where she stands in your relationship. If she says according to her you've broken up, then back away. I know that it doesn't seem like it but you will get over her!! There is plenty of fish in the sea and you seem young......so live and have fun.
2006-09-01 16:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by Carlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me in her mind you guys are already broke up. Especially if it took her a month to call you. confront her and let her know that you have been waiting for her and does she really want to bbreak up or has it happened without you knowing. Honestly hun, you don't need her find someone else who will respect you
2006-09-01 16:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by datcreekgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋