my bf is very aggressive in bed. he complains that he wants me to be more aggressive. it is hard because to be more aggressive, i have to be super aggressive to over power his aggressiveness. Please help! Any suggestions would be appreciated.
2006-09-01 16:17:48 · 8 answers · asked by sadie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should initiate sex before he does. Grab him pull him into the bedroom rip off his shirt and pants throw him onto the bed and you be on top. Drag your nails down his chest and back, bite his ear and most important use sex talk while your doing him like mmm I love your d***. You could try bringing in handcuffs or blindfolds and just completely have your way with him. If you try this I'm sure he won't complain. Good luck!
2006-09-01 16:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you to fight back, and act like you dont want it, he is living out his rape fantasy, if not then he is into being dominated, so tie him up, and then do as you wish with him, make sure to have a safe word, something that when he says that word, you stop what you are doing....that way you dont go too far...enjoy it, I know I do....
2006-09-01 16:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by manque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make love is two ways communication.
Do it when u feel to, dont just because he asked u to.
As long as u feel comfortable.
2006-09-01 16:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant make it that way,practice this way.
imagine he make love with someone else.of course you feel jealous.so..now act by all means
2006-09-01 16:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask you first if you enjoy his aggressiveness - and do you feel comfortable acting that way yourself? Go as far as you are comfortable/safe but don't exceed your comfort zone just to please him.
2006-09-01 16:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by ssblu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you just told 1/2 of the world... rofl.... sorry, but you really need to take the bulls by the horns and speak up girl..... tell him that in order for YOU to take control HE has to give it up...... God bless
2006-09-01 16:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tie him up and get him arroused go get a snack and beat the hell out of him then love on him
2006-09-01 16:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by m_c_b_1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
smoke some weed u will get the hang of it
2006-09-01 16:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by 1plum 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋