I believe it is. The woman must submit to the man who is pressuring her to have sex with him. In its extreme form it would be called rape. Marriage came from a rape ritual and its sick. Men put their stabbling penis into a woman and rape through unequality as all sexual intercourse with men.Seduction is often difficult to distinguish from rape. In seduction, the rapist often bothers to buy a bottle of wine.
2006-09-01 16:17:11 · 50 answers · asked by IHATEMEN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I am a lesbian. Lesbians do not have the male female inequality that goes on in sexual intercourse between males and females otherwise known as rape. Rapists are doing what society wants and it is sick. Women are pressured into sex. That is rape. Sex with men is RAPE
2006-09-01 16:20:59 · update #1
Get therapy.
2006-09-01 16:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All righhtty then. Well I hope you are young. Because then there is a chance you will find out there are many types of sexual intercourse. There is love, sex, passion, and yes even rape. There are times women want it just as much as the men if not more. That is why there are vibrators, when you can't find a decent man or if he is not available at the time we settle for the next best thing which is a really poor substitute for the real thing, but it can get the job done. A lot of us women want that stabbing penis pushed far and often into us. And it is not rape. Rape is rape it is violent and has nothing to do about sex but about violence.
2006-09-01 16:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cali Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right about some things. Men do demand that women have sex with them more often now-a-days. It's lalmost like a prerequisite for a second date (sometimes a first) But, women do have a choice. And some women, like myself, are the aggressors in the bedroom--but not until I choose to be.
So, it seems to me you have issues in regards to the men being the physically dominant counterpart of women. I think you are wrong about this... They may have strength, but we have POP.(power of the P**sy) It's a shame that more women don't know how to use that power... They just give it away.. Which brings me to my next point. Women do have saftey in numbers. If women would stop making it so easy for men, there would be so many less pig- men around. Women do need to unite and take control of the sexual game again.... Unfortunately, you are a lesbian and really shouldn't have an opinion on this.
I don't know where you get this "marriage came from a rape ritual" crap. Pretty much the whole animal kingdom works this way..Watch National Geographic...
But, as I've said, we as women need to stop making it so fricken easy...
UNITE!
2006-09-02 03:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually my first sexual experience with a woman consisted of her technically "date rapeing " me......SHE pressured me for sex...cornered me at school, and kept trying to mount me till I gave in , despite my protests (i was worried about getting her pregnant and was 15 and a virgin at the time, she was 16) Finally, I let her do what she wanted to get out of the situation. I had no where to go. I didnt want to hurt her feelings and felt like I was supposed to do SOMETHING , I just didn't know exactly WHAT!.. I really felt no sexual pleasure (thou I think I had an erection, which for a 15 year old is like breathing...only a man would understand this) then she apologized for "making me do that ". So ..... all this "only men rape " talk is BS. Do like I did ...get over it! and ... NO I don't hate women because of the experience ... I LOVE women , the idiotic thing about hateing men is that all men are created by women for women. In fact, biologically , all males start the first few months of their lives as a female. Males are a testosterone masciulinized TYPE of female. GO study you'r Biology get over the sex hateing thing .Hateing men is childish and indicitive of a troubled mind, as much as mysoginist and homophobic male attitudes are. I have to go now..its 11:35 pm on Friday and my girlfriend wants to rape me and is getting pissed that I am still typeing instead of laying down and letting her "rape " me.
2006-09-01 16:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by The Saint 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are having these issues & feelings towards men. I think you might be in need of therapy.
No, it's not all rape. Believe it or not, alot of women like to have sexual intercouse with men. I think todays society has drastical distorted the meaning of sex & a relationship, morals & principals however most of the time when a man & woman "Love" each other they enjoy having sex together.
2006-09-01 16:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Turtle1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy are you an angry woman. What happened to you to cause you to be so hostile? Were you abused? Are you a lesbian?
Consensual sexual intercourse between a man and woman is not rape. It is a natural beautiful thing. So is marriage.
If you can lighten up and try to enjoy love and sex with a man, you'll see what the big deal is all about.
Until then I recommend you purchase a sex toy - maybe a "rabbit"? Sounds like you need a good release.
Good luck, my sister...
2006-09-01 16:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some girls just are not into sex. Some people are not sexual. You are one of those people. It's kind of like submitting to the experience of a rollercoaster ride. You have to surrender yourself and just let the experience happen. I actually agree with you. In a way, sex is like a consentual rape. When the guy is thrusting into a girl it's not a massage, it's thrusting and pounding and feeling like you own her. But if the girl is loving it, then it's not really rape. That's part of what being a woman is about. If you think sex is bad, what about childbirth? That's supposed to be the greatest moment, and the worst moment in a woman's life. Life is full of these paradoxes.
2006-09-01 16:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by martin h 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow...very extreme. As long as it is consensual between adults...whether same or opposite sex....no it definitely would not be considered rape. Something very troubling (or several somethings) must have happened to you in your past. Like many of the others commenting I would also suggest serious counseling. With counseling hopefully you will be able to realize there are good men and bad men....same as good women and bad women....don't judge by the sex of the person. Good Luck and Best Wishes
2006-09-01 16:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by DD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like you have been hurt bigtime? No all men do not rape. Believe it or not some woman like sex and men and agree to have it with them. Everyone has the right to say no and not do it. If you give in that is up to you. No one can pressure me into anything I don't want to do. But don't generalize all men in one category, my man is one of a kind and wouldn't hurt anyone or do anything I didn't want. You need some therapy to get over your issues.
2006-09-01 16:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, anyway? You poor thing, you have been physically abused or else you have been emotionally or spiritually abused.
You need to see a counselor. NOW!
The whole rest of your life will be warped with an attitude like that. You will never be able to have a normal mature physical relationship without help. Life is beautiful. Love is beautiful.
Get some help so you can enjoy both.
2006-09-01 16:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone has possibly hurt you. I suggest talking to a professional therapist about this, and preferably a woman.
Men do some stupid crap, I realize that. However, there might be someone, some day, that really makes you happier than you could have ever imagined.
But, under your current mindset, it sounds as if you would let that person pass you by out of an inner anger. Don't let yourself be controlled by this anger you have inside.
2006-09-01 16:22:43 · answer #11 · answered by rod_j_clifton 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋