I am 14 and I have trouble talking to girls. I need help please
2006-09-01 16:16:01 · 18 answers · asked by just tht kid over there 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smile.. ! Girls love a guy who smiles, is funny and can make them laugh !! When you talk to a girl, talk about them, ask questions about her and focus on her - they love that attention. If she talks about her pet, for example, ask quesitons about the pet, like age, - if it's a dog, suggest you both take it to the park.. Good Luck ! P.s. Remember, be a gentleman too.. remember to open doors for girls, help them put their sweater/jacket on.. i know this may sound corny, but you know what? Girls love a gentleman !!
2006-09-01 16:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by FunInTheSun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't try and talk to girls that you have nothing in common with. Find someone that you know you have something in common with so you will have something to chat about. Join some groups at school or some sort of club outside of school where you may feel more comfortable. Don't worry about trying to talk to a girl in a way that you are trying to hook up with her or anything. Just try and make some friends that happen to be girls. Good luck! And....if all else fails just don't worry about it. I mean, you are only 14. You have the rest of your life.
2006-09-02 20:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by dawn_ch_believes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14 I remember being thrilled whenever a guy came up to talk me. If your problem is that you are shy just remember that most girls are just as nervous as you. Go up to a girl that you know by name and ask her if she has seen (insert movie title here). It is a easy conversation starter.
2006-09-01 23:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by URwhatUread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when your talking to girls don't be boring and go on and on about some star wars movies that you saw, and be nice! it's really not to hard to talk to girls we don't bite!! well unless you like the girl your trying to talk to! that's a problem i have when it comes to guys.
2006-09-01 23:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 29 yo man...the best way to talk to women is to talk to them like they are your friend. In the end you want the woman you marry to be your best friend.
2006-09-01 23:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to learn not to get nervous. us girls can tell if a guy has trouble talking to us. you got to learn, when in doubt, stand out
2006-09-01 23:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Super Swimmer Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would just try to be urself... Girls don't like a guy that try to act different plus they like guy that have confidence bout them selfs so just relax and be urself...
2006-09-01 23:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile a lot and listen to them when they speak. It would also be a good idea if you talked to them too...Good luck
2006-09-01 23:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and be yourself. Oh and talk about something that's interesting. Dont talk about cars or sports.
2006-09-01 23:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
instant message me and ill teach u how im 14 also
2006-09-01 23:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by lil'mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋