Alright I am sure someone can help me out there...
There is this girl at my school I've been hanging out with and i've even been to her house... but here is the catch. She tells me she has this boyfriend that she hates and can't get rid of, but he lives with her and her family. She says she can't get rid of him because he has no where to go, so she just stays with him. I mean it's clear as day that this girl likes me but it's really ackward being around her because her boyfriend is always there when I come over and he gets jealous. Not only that they share a phone... so when I call her he answers and he always wants to know what I want before I speak to her. When were at school things are cool, you know I can flirt with her and talk like normal and laugh and joke. Anyway what do you think I should do? I mean I don't want this guy to do something to me... I dunno what to do because we do like eachother...I want to be with her but maybe I should wait it out? Or should I just tell her?
2006-09-01 16:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you like her but you'd like to give it a chance without her boyfriend in the picture. He's trash if he has nowhere else to live but her house. However, if she's not willing to give him up, then give up on her. Chances are she's only keeping him around because she feels sorry for him, and if she's gonna let that get in the way of a potentially good thing then you can find better.
2006-09-01 16:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing that he has no where to go. They shaer a room and share a phone.. It still show that they are close. Don't be fool.ed. If she really hates him, she would have kicked him ot along ago! The thing that she still keeps him and knowing that it will inconvenient her relationship with you, spells sometihing. Looks like he play an important part in her life too. Don't be blinded by love, if she loves you that much, he would not be in her house in the first place. He seems like a bum and she is feeding him. Give her the ultimantum. - how long is she going to keep him there.
2006-09-01 16:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as ugly as it may seem to you, the only thing you can do is to talk to this girl and tell her straight up how you feel about the whole thing... I am sorry to say this but, it seems to me also that she is stringing both of you along.... Can't or Won't get rid of the other guy ? strange to me, that grown ppl will allow some one in their home that has NO business there.... I gotta question the motive behind this..... and I really think YOU should too... If she is soooo into you then he would be a gonner..... God bless
2006-09-01 16:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may like you but as long as he is living in her house you don't really have a chance of it becoming anything more than it is right now - a flirtation.
If she is serious about being with you, she'll do whatever it takes to get rid of him.
Since she's making excuses of how to keep this guy around, she WANTs it that way.
Find someone else! Good luck.
2006-09-01 16:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain, I were in this example once before myself. in case you dont have the middle to say "i dont prefer to be friends", then you extremely ought to ought to drop small tricks or ignore him each and every so often and continuously be in a hurry even as he turns up. He ought to easily get the message ultimately that you no longer too prepared on him...
2016-12-06 03:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. This is ridiculous! You have to feel uncomfortable because she has a boyfriend. Just leave her alone until she is single.
2006-09-01 16:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u like her
2006-09-01 16:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by love train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋