Do you find that some guys you like don't really like you, and some guys that do like you, you don't like? I always experience this sh*t, and it's frustrating me. The guys that do like me are the ones I know that will treat me good, but yet I am not attracted to them, why is that? And the ones that I like are the ones that don't treat me that great, but yet are the ones that I actually like. What is wrong with me? Will I have to just force myself to like the ones that I don't like? cause they are the ones that will treat me good.
2006-09-01 16:14:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH. MY. GOD.
I TOTALLY GET YOU. I can SO relate because this always happens. You like guy. Guy doesn't like you. Other guy friend likes you. You don't see anything happening between the two of you. STORY OF MY LIFE.
I know, it's so frustrating and annoying how this happens! I think shallowness and first impressions take the better of us. We see what we like, and we want. The ones girl are usually after are the hot, buff guys that are basically jerks (ONLY SOMETIMES!) The guys that would be a great boyfriend would be your guy friend.. who.. let's say not the best looking guy or does he seem like boyfriend material.
I can't relaly tell you why you act like this. I mean, I ACT LIKE THIS TOO! Who knows how many girls experience the same SHEEEeeet? All I can tell you is that, to give those 'non-dating-type' a chance. You might end up falling for them.
Those ot her guys who aren't interested in you, give them a chance also to show that yo'ure.. worth liking and girlfriend material! Don't give up, take the challenge :)
Good luck with this, finally a question I can so relate too. Really good question. I never had the guts to admit this.
2006-09-01 16:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get this too. And I have had one person I was talking to literally say I don't care or have any feelings for anyone. And that I don't deserve to find anyone good. But I think thats about messed up too. Just cuz he has had bad experiences he blames me. But I still say there are great guys out there when you find them. I mean its natural to want someone you can't have and wish to keep others as friends. Nothing wrong with that at all. We are just all seraching for something new and different. So don't get too frustrated you'll find the right person.
2006-09-01 23:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. OMG!!! I so know how you feel. There's these two guys that like me but I don't like them, but I know they would treat me good and the guy that I do like has a girlfriend but I think they would treat me good. But most guys that I liked smoke or do drugs and I don't think they'd treat me good either. I don't know why this happens.
2006-09-01 23:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by sweet gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because there's sumthan about a bad boy that gets u going plus the fear that if u get with a good guy then they will not be as exciting or willing to do things... but remember u can always turn ur good boy bad!
2006-09-01 23:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Never mind, just be patient, who knows you might just fall in love with the man who loves you more and treats you well.
2006-09-01 23:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋