Been seperated from my husband for 3 yrs now & been living alone with our 8 yrs old boy.My husband actually asked me to leave & our boy opted to leave with me when he was only 5 yrs old. Now I desire love, a proper home & upbringing for my boy.
2006-09-01 16:06:18 · 43 answers · asked by Destined Success 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I certainly do hope so as I am a little older than you (aged 50 years young) and am getting re-married next May 20. So in answer to your question it is never to late to remarry and be happy. It is best when you are marrying your best friend and you both know each other both positively and negatively. That you love one and other for the good qualities as well as the character defects. Because it is these differences that will allow you grow in love as you grow older together. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-01 16:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as i know, concerning love, everything is possible. I know you say you're 43 and all and a divorcee but its ok! You're alive and be thankful for that. About remarrying, of course you still can remarry and have a happy life. but the thing is do not rush ur decision! If you appear to be desperate, some guys might see that and take advantage of you. Show people that you are happy being a single mom and show them you still have it in you. When you finally found someone that takes interest in you, make sure that guy is willing to look pass ur past and love you for who you are. And there you go! A happy ever after life. By the way, 43 years old is still very young!
2006-09-01 19:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Abel Blessed Lim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is and you must know the Person fully before you leap in to the relationship sexually as well as seriously and make sure that he or she is the one that you really feel comfortable with and also that you can also really work things out with through rough times as well as others good and bad.
But if you can not on any part thus you like him or her alot you may want to decide if you want to be with him or her cuz of what you like on looks or what have you and not worry about if you will be happy or not or if you want to be happy and comfortable and safe etc then it can not be on looks or the way the person may seem now cuz over time People can change or yet it can be also that he or she can be one way at the basis that he or she is out side but behind closed doors he or she can be very different thus also know this beauty comes from with in its not the outer shell as it were..
2006-09-01 16:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by Peace Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible and 43 is not too old to start a fresh.
You have two choices - remain single and live a lonely existence for the next 40/50-odd years, or get out there and find yourself a great guy and share whatever life has to throw at you.
Good luck.
2006-09-01 19:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? What does age have to do with finding love and romance? I remarried last year at the age of 49 and my husband was 64. We are deliriously happy and bought a house and have a dog and two cats and kids are grown so we have alone time. You are still young, if you find someone, hold onto them. No one should go thru life alone. I wish you the best.
2006-09-01 16:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you deserve the right to re-marry, have love and be happy. 43 is still young. My mother in law, spent 6 lonely years after my father in law died, believing that she would tarnish his memory if she found love again. Last year she meet and married a wonderful man. She is 68 and happier than she has been since dad died. We all deserve love and happiness. Your son will also benefit from it. When shown what real love and happiness is kids grow to know what it is. And how wonderful it makes our lives. So get a divorce. And get yourself back out there and see what is waiting for you. Good Luck.
2006-09-01 16:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go looking but rather let love find u-it will happen when u least expect it but only get involved b/c u want to not b/c u think u son needs a "proper home" & "upbringing". u can provide these things to him w/o getting remarried or involving a man. my son is 12- i left his father 8 yrs ago & he is doing very well the way things are-his father & i do our best to get along for our son & to work together to help him become the best person he can & it's working. it took time for his father & i to get to where we are today & we now realize that dispite our differences we need to come together for our son & remind each other that we are blessed to have our son
2006-09-01 16:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age has no limit to your being happy and starting over with a new life with a good man. Take it slow and slowly bring the man around your son to see how he will react to him. I was a widow at 38 and have 2 children but I am still young and I have chose to move on with my life and make it the best for life is to short. Good Luck!
2006-09-01 16:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Most definitely one can/does get married at any age. Yes, I understand your desire, need for love for you are only human.
There are men that could/would be in your son's life as a mentor without getting married.
So, don't make the mistake of putting YOUR need of a relationship on your son. That is a heavy burden on him. My mother did that, married a man, that turned out to be bad. I don't think she verbally blamed me but I blamed me for telling her yes when she asked me.
2006-09-01 16:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by GERALD S. MCSEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, but whatever you do, leave the past behind. Your new partner is not responsible for the faults of the old one. Start with a clean slate.
Your new partner will he himself have been hurt, unless he is very lucky indeed.
Remember that, a fresh start.
2006-09-01 16:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by Tropic-of-Cancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋