okay so there are two guys that want me. well i figured out one of them and all he wants is you know what. but he's not getting it cuz i have more respect for myself than that. and the other guy well...i've known him for about 2 years i have really strong feelings for him as does he for me. but anyways this other guy, i told him i don't like him, STRAIGHT UP! and he won't leave me alone and the thing is no one can know about me and the other guy yet, personal reasons. sooo, i need to get rid of the crazy sex addict but he just won't take the hint, the guy i like has even told him i don't like him at all. but it's like UGH...i'm lost :-( please give me some ideas
2006-09-01 16:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by 10.95 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some times u can tell guys u dont like them in the worst ways and they still dont care ,i have been going through the same thing 4 about 4years now,somes times they have 2 see u with another guy n know that there is truly no chance n hell u 2 will get 2gether
2006-09-01 16:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by ThatDiva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A firm "no" is your friend. Don't refuse in a wishy-washy way that can be interpretted as "maybe," because that's what he'll hear. He needs to hear this from you, not the guy you're on the dl with (which is going to bite you, btw; it's best that you get the relationship out in the open NOW).
And if the horndog won't take no for an answer, assume that you're dealing with a potential rapist (because you probably are). Keep your friends close and your scary-looking guy friends closer when that dude comes around or when you're at anyplace where he's likely to show up.
2006-09-01 23:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving hints and tell this guy to leave you alone, you are not interested. He is becoming a stalker and somewhat crazy, so if it warrants it, call the police. Notify coworkers and teachers etc to watch out for him. You should tell him you already have a boyfriend, but do not tell him about the other guy. Do not be alone in public, and if he finds you, tell him calmly in front of those around you to leave you alone.
2006-09-01 23:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by craigrr929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of "no" doesn't he understand.
Explain to him that his following you around like a puppy dog is a real turn off and now, even if you had ever been attracted to him, he ruined his chances with his desperate behavior.
If you feel threatened by him, let someone who can help you know.... parents, teachers, police, employer (if you work together), .... someone.
2006-09-01 23:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can do several things.
u can tell him ur gonna get a restraining order on his ***.
u can talk 2 his parents or friends see if they can help.
u can ignore him n just keep going on with ur life
u can get a baseball bat n beat it into his head.
ur best bet is threatening 2 call the cops n get a restraining order on him. tell him he is harrassing u n u will get him 2 stop it usually works
good luck
2006-09-01 23:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
curse him out tell him off get a whole bunch of guys on him and they will deal with him........and i no how u feel.......jus try everything u posably can.....
2006-09-01 23:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by lil'mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur pregnant...or just ignore him comlpletely
2006-09-01 23:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you're gay.
2006-09-01 23:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by sweet gurl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
avoid him and if that doesnt wrk then idk
2006-09-01 23:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋