I did not want sex becuase I belive you should wait til you get married and she was 6 years younger than me she was 13 so I was going to just be her b/f but no sex and she most have wanted sex I guess but I told her no and my little sister who is the same age told me she had a boy in her bed already and her mom is ok with it I had to dump her and I really liked her too but I can't be with some one like that I just don't understand girls these days I want a girl I can treat like a lady and they all want sex! and when i don't give it to them they dump me or go out be hind my back with some one that will give it to them and one girl even spread rumors that i was gay that hurt so bad and I was only in the 4th grade at that time 4th grade girl wanted sex with me I don't know what is wrong with ppl these days?
2006-09-01 16:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by tony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she was my sisters friend and she was very cute and sweet so i thought and I planned on if she was as nice as she seemsed I would wait for her I got years of college yet too I yet ready to have sex and take a chance on getting a girl pg i got 4 years of school yet wow some of you really need to chill you act like the girls i know like sex is the most inportant thank yes one day I will meet the right girl and she will feel the same as me and be glad i waited for her too at least I will know I got no illness to pass on any way 4 years from now she would be 17 we could start planning a wedding even if we wait two more years it takes about 2 years to plan a good wedding or at least a year then she would be 18 but I did not date her I said i wanted to but not after what my sister said and the one girl in forth grade was my same age!
2006-09-01 16:32:42 · update #1
Tony I know how you feel and I do understand what it is like don't be in any hurry please take it from me you might kiss a lot of girl (frog) b4 finding your princess but don't worry she is out there and you will find her just pray and ask God to bring her to you and pray for her right now see even tho you don't know who she is God dose so pray for her and don't be discourage cause In God's season He will bring her to you!!!! and I am glad you are saving your self for her CZ God will bless that and she will appreciate it the right girl will and if they don't than keep looking CZ the girl you want is the one God has chosen for you I kissed a lot of frogs b4 finding the right prince and I even married two wrong (frogs) so trust me it can be hard but the right one will come and just pray about it and be sure be4 you leap I will pray for you and God Bless you and stay sweet don't let the failed past relationships get you down!!!!!
2006-09-03 05:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 19 and were dating a 13 yr old?? There's something wrong and very creepy about that. That would make you college age, and she would have been in GRADE SCHOOL last year! If you did have sex, you can go to jail for that. You could be required to be registered as a sex offender also. To top it off, have you heard what happens to people like that in prison? Look in the mirror and repeat after me - What is wrong with people these days?
2006-09-01 23:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most people are influenced by others so maybe that's why it happens. They could influenced because of their parents or friends or even the music the listened to. Also curiousity could be a big thing. 13 year olds having sex? That's crazy.
2006-09-01 23:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Monklin! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not change, you are doing the right thing. You will find someone who has the same values as yourself and you will be happy. If all these girls want is sex, and you dont, let them be. They are not worth you.
2006-09-01 23:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound like a really nice guy and I wish you the best of luck with girls and everything else in your life.Most guys and girls should be more like you.God Bless You
2006-09-01 23:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, first of all there's something emotionally immature about you if you think it's OK for a 13year old to have a 19year old boyfriend...even if there's "no sex", as you say; see a therapist, because otherwise you're probably going to end up in jail...
2006-09-01 23:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am with you i am saving that till i get married and i am a girl the one's that you ended up with are sluts.
2006-09-01 23:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u r messed up
2006-09-01 23:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by love train 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sex is good, its fun, feels good, and you should try it...
2006-09-01 23:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by manque 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋