I enjoy being with a woman physically, but when it comes to a steady relationship, I always choose a man. I was in a serious relationship with a woman for about 9 months, it didnt end horrible or anything, it just ended. I prefer my steady relationships to be men, but I cant stop feeling for women. So am I considered bi-sexual or would I just be some hetro-confused chick?
2006-09-01 15:59:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like option B to me; hetero with an open mind. Most lesbians and bisexual women I know feel a greater emotional connection to women than to men, even if they're attracted to men. Since you're the other way around, your primary attraction is probably to men.
You may be suffering from something that usually afflicts men; intimacy issues that get confused with sex. What are your friendships with other women like? Do you even have any female friends? If you have trouble relating to women in a nonsexual way, your sexual attraction to the same sex might well be a manifestation of an emotional deficit. I recommend talking to a real counselor (which I am most certainly not) about it.
2006-09-01 16:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are bi-sexual.
A lot of topless dancers are bi-sexual also. They are attracted to the adult entertainment industry, in the same way that gays are attracted to the profession of hair stylists.
It's easy to spot the bi-sexual women in a topless bar. They are sitting right next to the stage, along with a bunch of horny guys, watching the dancers. And sometimes? The dancers in one club will get off work, and go to another club that's still open.
And if in doubt? None of the girls will have any problem telling you if they are straight or bi-sexual. The ratio in a topless bar is about 60 / 40. About 60 percent are straight. And about 40 percent are bi.
I don't have a problem with it. Most men don't.
Women who are bi-sexual - or even full blown lesbians - are somehow not as threatening to the male ego as an openly declared gay. It's the same thing for the opposite sex, but in reverse.
Women who are straight can be very leery of lesbians and bisexuals, but don't have a problem associating with men who are gay. Some of them even think it's cute. Especially when they cross dress, and try to act like women.
In case you are wondering? I'm straight as an arrow. I just happen to have had a lot of relationships with women - who - after getting to know them better - turned out to be bi-sexual.
I just need to stop getting my girlfriends from topless bars! :)))))) LOL
2006-09-01 23:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Techguy2396 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bi-sexual, there is nothing wrong with just having a girlfriend that you go really slow with, I mean you can still have your intimate moments, but well if you take it slow with her, she won't expect a serious relationship out of you, and you can have that physical contact you really like, as for a guy, well you can have him either do a threesome with you and your girlfriend. Or just stay exclusive and do what you normally do with your boyfriends. My advice would be to not mention your bi though, it's not that you should be ashmed about it, because well you should be proud of your sexuality, it's just that guys tend to take advantage of their crazy a*s dream of having a threesome with two girls, and especially if there is alot of contact between those two girls. It's a guy's dream, so well don't try to influence that, unless you wouldn't mind doing something like that. But you have to remember that a threesome involves you and another girl along with your boyfriend, and it can become a jealously war between you and the girl, over the fact that the other girl might be giving your boyfriend alot more attention, or your boyfriend might seem to enjoy doing her more than you. Whatever the case may be.
So well yeah your Bi, no doubt about it, so well take risks and try new things out and see what happens
2006-09-01 23:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are more confused since it's only the sexual aspect of women you admire. It's a turn on to you because it's still considered taboo almost. :)
Dont think too much about it, stick with men since they are better for you in the long run. You want to be with someone that when the sex fades you are still happy with them!
2006-09-01 23:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! you are advance and complex. To have a choice from both the women and men certainly add more spice in your life. Why limit to one gender. Go for variety.
2006-09-01 23:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by willibwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like men and women. so that makes you bi-sexual
2006-09-01 23:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are definitly a hetero confused chick. And I wish you luck in life, because unfotuneatly Id like to say discrimination is dead, but its not.
2006-09-01 23:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to label yourself. The right person will come along, whether they're male or female.
2006-09-01 23:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever u wan to call urself confused chick
2006-09-01 23:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a couple of friends who were in the same place that you seem to be....they died of AIDS...
2006-09-01 23:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋