Okay, I have been dating this guy since December, I really like him alot, we haven't slept together because he hasn't wanted to which I've found kind of odd. Anyhow, he will only take me out to eat out of town and stuff, and I've always found that kind of odd too, anyhow, just today I got an e-mail from a girl who said she was living with him and said that I can have him now that she's decided she don't want him, What should I do? He's lied to me and her this whole time, but now he says that he really wants to be with me. What should I do?
2006-09-01 15:50:05 · 24 answers · asked by Tammy C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he lies to his live-in girl friend why do you think he will not lie to you?
Forget about him. He's not worth your time.
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2006-09-01 15:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 06:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by sturms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He lied and cheated on you I would have nothing to do with him. It is better for you and the other girl to move on. He may said he changed but if he really loved you then he would have not done it in the first place. Go cast your line and rile in a new fish.
2006-09-01 15:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you because other one dumped him. I learned hard way. Same happened to me and later I found out that he was involve in the group sex and free sex and all kind of ****. He was also dating few women and had one long distance girlfriend also. I didn't care had baby and lived with him for 3 years. He walked out few days ago. I am not saying your man will turned out to be same as mine but be carefully.
2006-09-01 16:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by archsidny2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself how you would feel if you got deeply involved with him only to discover that he is having a secret non-sexual relationship with someone else. You now know he is capable of this, and there is no reason to suspect this behavior will change. If you don't mind this type of infidelity, then it wouldn't hurt to give him a chance, but if it would upset you, then you might be better off with someone else.
2006-09-01 16:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jude Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT see him anymore. Most men once they cheat never stop. You may go into a relationship with him and everything be OK, but don't be surprised if you get cheated on also. No matter what happens I hope you'll be OK. Take Care and remember that not all men are dumb ***'s.
2006-09-01 15:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder if the e-mail was real. Then I would find out. Next I would find someone else to date, the guy was "cheating" with you, but he didn't want sex. He can't get an "affair" right, is he really worth your time?
2006-09-01 16:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by malraene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree ALL of the above. RUN You deserve better, Let be a learning thing listen to yourself the next time when "something seems kind of odd".
2006-09-01 15:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by fred f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart if you think you can get past the fact that he lied and cheated, and only you can feel if he is sincere about his appology, but from my experience he's probably full or crap, they usually are. If you do decide to stat with him please I beg you use protection not birth control you don't know what a man that cheats may have and HIV hides for up to a year sometimes.
2006-09-01 15:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's lied to you this long, what makes you think he's goint to even slow down now? Second question for you to ponder. If he's been cheating on his old girlfriend with you, what makes you think he won't do the same to you? My advice, DUMP HIM, and fast.
2006-09-01 15:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋