I've been trying to think of ways to tell my bf I might be pregnant but all of them are really bad and now I don't know what to do.
2006-09-01 15:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by BabyGirl7044 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I speak at high schools to girls about issues like this. I always say that if you are afraid to TALK about sex with him, you probably shouldn't be HAVING sex with him. If you are pregnant then too little too late but if you are not it is certainly something to sit down and think about.
2006-09-01 15:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by j h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off HELLO CONDOMS....sorry but it had to be said...The first thing you want to do is find out. I know you might want him to be there through the whole thing but guys are not as sensitive to the subject. I mean some are great and some have you wondering what did I ever see in this guy. Next you really have to consider what you want in the long run. If you are do you want to keep it or are you comfortable with other options. Remeber this is your body and its something you have to live with mentally and physically for the rest or your life. If its a false alarm HELLO CONDOMS...if its not well there is never gonna be the perfect moment. Something like this is not a good "hypothetical question" situation. You either are or aren't. If you are justbe honest and straight forward. If you grown enough to have sex be grown enough to deal with everything it comes with. If you can't find the "right" words give him the test or the slip from where you got the test done. His reaction should be evident than. Make sure you have a real good friend to talk to and have support you through this. I mean someone other than him. Hope all goes well with it and after umm HELLO CONDOMS..good luck and don't be more concerned with his choice or anyone elses for that matter remember its your mind your body your rest of you life.
2006-09-01 20:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by GoldRush Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason to worry about this is that your boyfriend might leave you.
Find out if you are pregnant either with a doctor or a test kit instead of just thinking about it.
One thing that men do not like is being manipulated by false predictions of pregnancy.
If he is going to leave you when you get pregnant, you don't want him to be the one to get you pregnant.
You want an honest man, I assume.
How can you find an honest man if you do not give him a chance to be honest by just asking him what you want to know?
2006-09-01 15:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by faqsphinx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a home test & find out before you do anything else. Then get honest & start communicating with your bf, no matter the results. And if this is a hypothetical question, then why not ask him to marry you & check out his response. That'd be a real good place to start & it's not like we're living in the dark ages anymore.
2006-09-01 15:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward with him and say Hey ya kno I might be pregnant. Are u gonna be here or r u gonna leave?...Get a pregnancy test and find out 4 sure first.
2006-09-01 15:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that you are pregnant, or if you don't, and your having sex pregnancy is sometimes a result, i would just ask him, how would he feel if i ever got pregnant, and who knows some times he might give you an answer you'd been hoping for, not all men are dogs, just ask him how he feels, if he gets mad, than he's not worth your time, all guys know there is a possibility chance of pregnancy when you have sex..........
2006-09-01 15:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by miss.d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you think you are pregnant and aren't sure how to tell him or is this a hypothetical situation? If you think you are then get a test and find out for sure first... then if its a + result just tell him.... (insert name here) I'm pregnant.
2006-09-01 15:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared to talk to your boyfriend if he loves you like he say he does then he will have to understand that a baby cant keep a man you just want to know is he a real man or a fake man so you could know where your options are if you do become pregant
2006-09-02 03:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by msstrawberryshortcake21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him ffs... If in fact you are pregnant then grow up and get it together... If your not pregnant, thank your lucky stars and keep your legs tightly closed until you get married little girl...
2006-09-01 15:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hey i might be prego I might need a test ok they sell them at walmart
2006-09-01 15:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋