My boyfriend is tan skinned black curly hair and he gets called mud sometimes by white power groups. Would it be mean for me to call him that too?
Or should I call him that in public? Should I say come here you dirty mud then kiss him?
2006-09-01 14:58:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gee I don't know, would you like it if he called you a skank in public?
2006-09-01 15:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say No, because, if the it bothers him when the white power people call him that, then it will DEFINITLY put you on THEIR side of racial fence, and you may just hurt his feelings. I think it works better if a black person call another black mate something with a racial spin, or a white calls another white, like that, but in this situation, i do not believe he would take kindly to that, at least i wouldnt. and i am white hah.
2006-09-01 22:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by sf4fun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, go ahead and do that if you want to get dumped by him, how could you be a racist datin a black dude, cause thats what you have to be to think thats ok in any circumstance, if you call him that he deserves to leave you cause you truly dont appreciate him or see him as an equal, i'm just so amazed that you would even consider that,, you should be angry at those white supremacist for callin him that, not joinin them, i'm absolutely puzzled why you guys are together
2006-09-01 22:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by fatalbert167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in public it depends on what type of area u in but is kinda offencive to other people but when u teasing or just playing around then yeah other than that nope
2006-09-01 22:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the word dirty isn't flattering to anyone, even in a joking way. if he has to hear it from people he doesn't like then why should he have to hear it from you too. why don't you compliment him on his complexion its probably beautiful.
2006-09-01 22:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go near that name with a ten foot pole!
2006-09-01 22:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be rascist... why you wanna put him down? pop a cap in the *** of them power groups for talkin **** bout your man, why are you even askin this.. damn
2006-09-01 22:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Xx__NyZ_CLaRiTy__xX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i dont think its ok. its derogative and meant to be used to put him down. why cant you just say, come here you sexy hunk and give him a kiss? that should be ok
2006-09-01 22:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by milisnyaica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how stupid can you be??? if he doesnt like it when they do it what makes you think he is gonna like it when you do it?? come up with some other lil pet name for him...in my opinion if you even think about calling him something like that you dont deserve him.
2006-09-01 22:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you humiliate him like that? Would you like him to call you "whitey" or "pasty"?
2006-09-01 22:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋