I don't want her to be embarrassed by peoples reactions...She has not told anyone yet....but maybe I am overreacting.Any advice
2006-09-01 14:55:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Not weird, she just loves her dogs a lot. I think it's kind of charming and sweet. What kind of pooches does she have?
2006-09-01 15:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, what on earth are flower barriers? A barrier is something like a fence, that prevents people from getting past it. Is that what your sister wants?
Or is she talking about flower bearers? If she can train her dogs to walk on their hind legs, carry a bouquet, and scatter flower petals down the aisle as they walk along, then go for it. Otherwise, it sounds pretty iffy. There are some purely practical considerations here. You can say to a little flower girl, or a little boy who is the ring bearer, "Do you have to go to the bathroom? Let's try, before we go into the church." But you can't say to a dog, "Do you have to go pee pee?" And your sister would be pretty embarassed if the dogs stopped to do what dogs do on the way down the aisle.
What happens to the dogs during the service? Unless they are VERY well trained, they are not going to simply sit there while a formal wedding unwinds itself. Are they going to join in the singing? That could be interesting too.
Is the wedding taking place out of doors or in a church? If it's out of doors, and someone could escort the dogs back to their kennels after they have trotted down the aisle ahead of her, that could work. But in a church? i don't think so....
2006-09-01 17:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being a twin myself-I can tell you this-sometimes you don't have to give the best to your blood-if you feel they don't deserve it. If I connected with my dogs more than what I do with my sis-I'd do the same-it's meaningful-just because your blood doesn't mean you have the right-unless it's on your part. My sis and I are twins-and we don't act like best friends-in fact when I marry (and damn I better) I don't think she'll be the made of honor or flower barrier-just a guest-in order for someone to have such prestigious title I feel like they have to affect you in such way-whether intimidate or not!! I actually think it's cute!! :)
2006-09-01 17:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a bit weird to some, but I think it's rather cute.
Rather than worry about what other people will say about your sisters wedding.. because face it, people will always find something wrong, no matter what....get excited over how she wants her wedding to be! Back her up on this.. it's her day after all.. and imagine what fond memories she'll have... even if everything were to go wrong
2006-09-01 15:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by sassy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion it is a bit strange, however, it is not my wedding. It is her day and let her do what she wants. If people react then that is part of her decision. Let her do whatever she wants for her day, even if you don't agree----and remember that will hopefully be reciprocated for you with a wedding or party you give later. If she asks your opinion, be honest but supportive, "yes I think its' a bit strange and people might talk but it is your wedding and I support whatever you want to do---and it might make for some laughter and smiles on your day!" Also remember, you are twins, and she may be trying to do something "different" to be that separate personality!
2006-09-02 05:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Missie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOV E IT!!! Dogs are often a part of the family. Including them gives a touch of humor and friendly informality to an otherwise formal occasion. But your sister might want to make sure her finance is ok with it. She wouldn't want to start off her married life by diss-ing her hubby or his parents---better to save Frisky and Lucky a slice of wedding cake than risk that!
2006-09-01 15:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Debra N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 03:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by scalf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason for you to be embarrassed over something your sister does. Am sure she has a good reason for incuding two of her best friends in her wedding.
2006-09-01 15:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted my dogs to be flower girls... hubby said no. It is her wedding, let her do what makes her happy. Isn't that what is about anyway?
2006-09-01 14:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's her wedding... if she wants to break the rules of etiquette, let her. It's a shame she wouldn't want some HUMAN family member to do it.
2006-09-01 15:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋