I'm a 16 yr old guy.. anyway, whenever im alone with a girl, whether it's walking her home or hanging out at school, for some reason i can never keep looking them in the face. Yes, it has something to do with their beauty, but also, like, I don't want to seem like i'm obsessed. It's hard for me to keep eye contact with them also because i'll eventually blush if i keep looking at her and seeing her smile. I try looking at the ground when we walk, but to her it probably feels like im uninterested. I refrain from looking at other people walking by, as it might seem as if i'm interested in the other girls, and lastly, I 'try' my best not to look elsewhere at her but her eyes, and i'd hate to get caught looking at the twins, not that i do it often anyways. It's almost like those embarassing confrontations with one of your parents when you were a little kid, and you can't make decent eye contact, except this is a totally different scenerio.. Please help!
2006-09-01 14:51:10 · 6 answers · asked by catsarecool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i have to say is be a man and do it, you're more likely to get with a girl if you can look her right in the eyes
2006-09-01 14:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by fatalbert167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to not stare straight into a girls eyes all the time. Honestly I get nervous when I guy doesn't break eye contact at some point, except for my bf of course. Just look at others things around you when you're talking, the sky, trees, your hands, but keep your gaze moving. Don't be twitchy about it, just relax, I don't think they'll feel like you're uninterested if you keep talking with them, and you're right try to avoid them thinking that you're looking at other girls when you're hanging out with just one. Just don't stare at the twins and you'll be fine. There are certain physicalities that catch ever one's eyes and you're not wrong for noticing, if they take offense they're immature for 16.
2006-09-01 14:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sager 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just too sensitive. You gotta get out of the habit of looking down when ur walking. It is totally not cool and like u said it gives the impression of u not being interested.
Stop thinking about what other people may be thinking. You will drive urself crazy. who the hell cares what others think. Just look at ur girl in the eye and be urself. Hey it's normal to look at girls chests just dont stare at them! (or get caught)!!
Remember... eye contact and focus on ur subject not what everyone else is thinking
2006-09-01 14:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a normal reaction. She probably thinks you're shy. You probably are shy, haha.
When you look at her, look at her forehead or eyebrows - to her it will seem like you're looking right into her eyes.
Eye contact held for too long is spooky anyway.
2006-09-01 14:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by lucy_shy8000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got the same problem, look at her forehead or eyebrows if it doesn't make you blush or something.
2006-09-01 14:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by 1970boss302mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get laid... after you see her completely naked, you'll have no problem
2006-09-01 14:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋