She has a new friend and all she does is hang out with her so I feel left out. Everytime I ask her if she wants to sleep over her mom says no but for her other friend she says yes. My friend herself never really seems like she wants to hang out. I feel like I'm wasting my time with someone who doesn't care.
2006-09-01 14:14:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
F*&K your "friend". You know girls are so funny style. Its like friends come a dime and a dozen, but your real, true friends will never leave your side. Yes, you may argue and not speak for a couple of days but you'll always remain friends. If her mom doesnt like you or your mom and your friend lets that affect your friendship than you need to start meeting new friends to hang out with. You possibly could be wasting your time. Dont let no one make you feel like you have to beg for their friendship.
2006-09-06 08:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start hanging around with other people, but first tell her how you feel left out due to the new friend.
My daughter has gone thru this in the past w/friends. Sometimes the problem got worked out; other times it didn't.
All you can do it explain to her how you feel and go from there. She may not be doing this on purpose, but if she is then you probably are right about not wanting her as a friend anymore.
2006-09-01 14:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to seek out a new friend. I'm sorry this must be painful for you -loosing a friend even one like this is never a good feeling. The best revenge is to go on and enjoy your life with new friends. If she really wants to have you as a friend she should not use her mom as an excuse. You can do better. Good luck.
2006-09-07 19:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Judy C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, that yes you are wasting your time. As we enter our adolescent years and go through adult years we learn that some friendships come and go. It is a learning experience. I think you need to believe in yourself more. Know that you can and will find another good friend. Not a replacement of your old one, for if you allow that to happen it is baggage you carry. As soon as you believe in you, you will laugh at the way she had power over you. As i said learn from this, regain your power . You will meet other people-- it's a big world..
2006-09-09 05:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by michele g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to let her go don't push yourself with someone who doesn't care for you. Stay calm don't quarrel with her let her feel that even if she doesn't care for you you will still remain as you are.Maybe therse's a conflict between your mom and your friend's mom but if both of you are really friends don't let it to be the reason to destroy your friendships.Well if you don't want her anymore and same is through with her there's no need to tell it just let her go.
2006-09-07 20:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by vjean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like you are wasting your time, you probably are. your friend knows that she cant make her mom change her mind and probably doesnt want to hurt your feelings.
start looking around and see if there is someone else that you want to hang with. be her friend when she wants, but dont plan on being friends if her mother has anything to say about it.
2006-09-08 11:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you kinda have already figured it out...why be in a friendship that causes such grief? It is time to move on and find new friends....I would really say hi and goodbye, and smile and go about your own way..remember fairweather friends...you didn't do anything wrong,..except her mom don't like your mom..and she is making it bad for everyone...so out of respect...just drop it and move on...
2006-09-09 00:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to talk to her anymore sooner or later she'll get the picture, if you borrowed anything of hers give it back to her, throw it in her face actually, you won't have to deal with her or her mother, stat hanging out with a new GROUP of friends and you'll start having lots more fun.
2006-09-09 01:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time and efforts on the non-friend. Seek your efforts into finding someone else that will enjoy your friendship and what you have to offer as a friend :)
2006-09-07 02:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it's just that simple! You Are wasting your time. I don't think you should worry about telling her anything. Just let it go, and find someone who Does care. If she happens to ask, just be honest as politely as you can. To wit: she's not paying rent in your conscience, so evict her.
2006-09-06 15:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by gdt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋