i dunno if many women get this trouble. but every weekend my boyfriend goes out with the lads for drinks.
i dont mind but he always comes back drunk as a skunk. hes really funny first falling over but after a while he falls asleep on the sofa, toliet, floor, garden you name it.
its fustrating coz when he comes in i just wanna cuddle up and maybe have a chat but he is so incohearent
the next morning he wakes up and remembers nothing.
am i being unresonable?
2006-09-01 14:09:10 · 16 answers · asked by lisa7777 2 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
kitty- i do go out with him but where as i drink and can handle my drink and i drink wisley he stills end up in the same state.
i did find it funny when were first together but it is tiring when you have to deal with every weekend
2006-09-01 14:29:02 · update #1
I'm so sorry i know that's hard.Is he a nice drunk cuz i would worry about yew getting in a fight with him and him hurt you. now i don't know a lot about drunks but please dont let him hurt you also when he is sober try talking to him and no you are not over acting that's normal to be concerned. good luck with him let me knows how it goes
2006-09-01 14:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl this guys got a problem and needs to get help if this is an every weekend thing it will soon become and every night thing get him some help now! If you really love him you get him some help if he refuses then cut the ties. Not adressing this will only lead to heart ache for you in the long run.
2006-09-01 16:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by tango 62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get drunk with my boyfriend...but it is annoying when he goes out with the boys without me, but thats usually just for a bachelor party or something. Have you tried going out with him? Because sometimes guys feel protective of their girl if she's out drinking with him, so he ends up drinking less.
By the way, has he ever gotten up to pee after passing out and thought somewhere else (like the closet, or a potted plant) was the toilet? Because mine has.
2006-09-01 14:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're his "punching bag" in case you will...not that I mean he hits you yet which you're who he's taking his frustration out on b/c you're who's around. My ex husband became the comparable way, he'd drink and drink and drink and then become a monster. I wager you whilst he sobers up he appologises to you too. right here is the element, he's in denial. You telling him he has a difficulty and that he desires help will in no way come out precise, all he will right it rather is ....there is a few thing incorrect with you. i think of contacting yet somebody else who cares approximately him could be a stable thought. you do not might desire to bypass via this on my own. in keeping with risk his mom stepping up and telling him....look, me and (you) are nervous approximately you and we want you to get extra suited and we like you. I left my husband b/c i could not cope with the abuse anymore and then it began moving over to our infants and that became the line and he crossed it. Now, he tells me he's sorry and that he might desire to have made it extra suited....nicely yea you may desire to have yet i attempted to be afflicted approximately you and furnish help to yet you probably didn't want my help so I had to be afflicted approximately me and my teenagers. base line....he might desire to not replace until he desires to, no you may make him. in simple terms be careful. attempt to avert him whilst he's eating b/c yelling will become screaming and screaming will become throwing issues which could become some thing worse.
2016-11-23 18:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by winni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you're not being unreasonable, but you do need to let him go out every once in a while or he'll start to feel tied down. it sucks that he gets completely s***faced every weekend, but that's when you need to draw the line. maybe once a month he can go out with his boys, but no more than that.
2006-09-01 15:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by flip4urkandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 44 i use to do that it just gets worse he needs to stop drinking 4 its to late i don't touch it anymore i lost to much
2006-09-01 14:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...he needs help. I don't know his age, but my deceased husband lost his liver at 42. He started out like your boyfriend.
2006-09-01 14:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you're not being unreasonable. you should get rid of him if he doesn't listen to you and want to be with you over his boys. you need to get the respect from him. you don't deserve anything less than you believe in your head. find someone who treats you right.
2006-09-01 14:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with all of the above, he needs help, and he has to want it himself. You don't need him taking you down with him.
Move on.
2006-09-01 15:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are not being unreasonable...you should get away from him & not look back...you deserve better! seriously, alcoholics always go back to drinking
2006-09-01 14:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by bonbon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋