I do, I was young and he treated me like a queen but curiosity got the best of me and i left him for someone else, I am still in this relationship has its ups and but i wonder where we would be today had we stayed together?
2006-09-01 13:56:26 · 25 answers · asked by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you would be blissfully happy. I let him go, never realized that I loved him until I married my "true love" and saw the value of how the one that I let go had treated me.
2006-09-01 13:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a love when I was 15 and she 14. I had never kissed or touched her but I really loved her. She new that I did. I was chubby and she perfect. She had to take care of her 2yr old brother. Two years I yearned for her. Her mom would chaperon when I went to her house. We would talk and get lost in each others eyes. She played violin. When I graduated HS at 17 , I joined the Marines,
I had lost 85 pounds and was in incredible shape. Just before going to Viet Nam I had some leave. I was strutting.
I looked for her, but she had moved. I had a picture of her
That I had done in silk in Japan.There were no computers yet, no one knew where she had gone.
Since then , I lived a very full life and had 4 wives, but never forgot my love. Last year I found her in the Obituary's, dead from cancer. I cried like a baby.Just like I had just lost her.
2006-09-01 21:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to look at the grass on the other side of the fence and say it was better or would have been better. There is not any telling. All relationships have their ups and downs. There are times the greatest loves of my life which are the children I care about or my immediate family have made me just wish they were not a part of my life because it may be a bad day for me hormonally, I may be sick, I may be tired, something bad may have happened it passes. I look back occassionally but that was a part of my life I changed I left I outgrew. What I wish is that I myself had not left any hurt or harm behind and that it had not ended with any anger or hurt. That I did not carry or harbor any ill feelings or bad feeling even longing or desire for something that is not and will not be. A lonely widow I met awhile back online told me that she went back to see two old boyfriends she cared about in highschool to find they were divorced because they were total creeps and she had thought so well of them. So she said better the women who got them and suffered than I. I am female we were friends online for a shortwhile and talked. I suppose the fact I was able to go on with my life without resentment or serious grief FINALLY as I grew up a bit may have been more than she could deal with. In time she will get over her loss of her husband she loved who was older than her in poorer health that she cared very well for a long time. He was a good man he will always probably be missed and no one will replace him because we are each individuals. Each different who should be appreciated for ourselves. He is not here and you should recognize that the person who is with you and caring for you is here and now. If he is bad to you go on find someone or something better for your life. I have found there is always another man somewhere to share my time with good or bad or something else to do if I cannot find a man to share my time with like an education, travel, charity work etc.
2006-09-01 21:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by Faerieeeiren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my childhood sweatheart, Sandra. we met in first grade and for me, and her, it was love at first sight. we dated, as first graders can, and did so every single year until high school. no matter what happened, breaking up, dating other people (which was usually me, not her) we would wind up back together. I was in love with her, but once high school came there where so many girls that were cute and/or sexy and so many hitting on me. I figured I'd have fun and Sandra and I would end up together again. well, she started dating this guy and got pregnant, moved, married him, etc. I have dated and been with a lot of women but she is the only one that runs through my mind every day and it makes my heart ache a little bit more each passing day as I am not, and never will be, with her.
2006-09-01 21:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by JJohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea everybody looks back at 'those" mistakes. Wondering whether if it was the right choice. When you think it's absolutely the best choice to leave this guy and go with the new one. But when i look back i have regrets. But you know what they say, Never regret anything that once made you smile.
2006-09-01 21:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still talk to the guy.
I was young too (14). Now, I'm 18 and he's still a great guy but I've since decided that he deserves better than me.
2006-09-01 20:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pined for an ex for 21 years. Last year we were reunited and we are getting married in 2007!
2006-09-01 21:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have and I do not wonder for the "what could have been...". If ever one had a past love there is no use thinking about it... he/she could not move on if that would be the case.
2006-09-01 21:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mercie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had several[ast loves i wish i could still know:). But the one I am in now is great so what the hell.I is gratefull redenck::_)
2006-09-01 20:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i still think of my first love from middle school" andrew richard klein". if you go to reunion.com and see south plantation high school. look me up and you will see how i still am looking for him. and it's been over 25 years. good luck.
2006-09-01 21:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by aileen320flpa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋