Hi, I am a 24 year old virgin guy who is saving virginity till marriage. I just got curious about sex and wanted to ask the following Qs.
1. How much does sex feel better than masturbation in ur experience? 2. Do you think I am missing out by being abstinent till marriage? Any honest or frank answer would be appreciated. Thanks.
2006-09-01 13:51:28 · 9 answers · asked by nicesinging1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from what my husband tells me. it is alot better than masterbating and wears him out alot more
2006-09-01 13:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex (intercourse) feels DIFFERENT from masturbation although the end result is still pretty much the same. It's just a different sensation than jacking off. It's much BETTER in my opinion because like so many other things, it's just more fun to do it with someone else. Also you have all that wonderful foreplay leading up to the actual f---ing!.
It's your life and your choice if you want to remain a virgin until marriage. If you were much younger (12-18) I would say it might even be the best choice...best not to hurry into sex too soon. Over 18 is a different story and if two people get serious, I see no problem at all with sex before marriage. Probably even a good thing to make sure you are sexually compatible (that's important!). If you just haven't met the right woman yet, nothing wrong with waiting...as I said it's your life! I definitely wouldn't be engaging in a lot of promiscuous behavior in today's dangerous (STDs) times!
2006-09-02 03:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. For me it depends on the day sometimes i would rather have sex than masturbate but with sex comes the responsibility of making sure the other persons needs are met and once you have a family sometimes the task of meeting the others needs in the bedroom can be difficult after a long day of work and taking care of the children, So other days masturbation is preferable to sex. 2. You aren't exactly "missing out" but sex is a huge part of a relationship in order for two people to really survive in a relationship i believe a healthy sex life is important, and if you do not have sex with the person before marriage you may be entering in to a situation where you may be unsatisfied. 3. It depends on the woman you marry, if you marry someone who has a high sex drive then you will have sex often if you marry someone who has a lower sex drive you probably won't have sex very often.
2016-03-27 03:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cool that your practicing abstinence. I give you props for that.
I think sex is a lot better. With the right girl man it's infinitely times better.
As long as you don't feel like you're missing out then you're not missing out. Better to get all your curiosity out now rather than cheat when you're married.
2006-09-01 14:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by fangstar 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They're not even on the same planet. There's always "some" distraction from your brain, adjusting rhythm, stroke, muscle tensity, etc., while your working on yourself. While having sex or being "done" there is not thought but what's in your mind/body and its SO INTENSE.
Masturbation = 4
Sex = 10
2006-09-01 14:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u dont lose out by abstinence cos u will have it when u marry anyway. and i havent had sex either so i dont really know but i heard sex is alot better and u *** alot faster durin sex than durin masturbation
2006-09-01 13:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not doing the wrong thing by waiting but yes it feels much better
2006-09-01 13:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Scott J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be disappointed with the real thing
2006-09-01 13:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by rob 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
aww thats so cute
2006-09-01 13:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by TropicalGlitter31103 3 · 4⤊ 12⤋