Did you ever go looking on your boyfriends computer to see if he has porno on it?

Question

He claimes he doesnt watch porno anymore , if he does and tells me fine, but when he lies thats when i get pissed.

So last sat. i got the urge to log on to his computer, went into the history then boom porno.
i asked him about it, he said he doesnt know what im talking about and that that he gets porno popups. First of all popups dont show up in your history, secondly, he has a popup blocker the same as mine and i never get popups anymore let alone porno popups.

He still sticks to his story, i just know he lied to me , when he could have simply told me the truth and i would have let it go. Hes trying to play me for a fool

Has this happen to you?

Answer 1

OMG...yes my ex did this all the time...claiming they were just pop ups..haha I knew better. Once I found out he lied to me about something as simple as that I started finding out about all the other crap he had lied to me about so finally I said enough is enough and dumped the jerk...that's all you'll ever get is lies.

Answer 2

Yes he thinks you are stupid or something, which you are clearly not! My ex and i didn't have a computer because of his job,,,,,,really long story, My new husband is computer geek god and too involved in computer stuff for porn. I swear its like a mistress. But my 15 year old son- my god my computer is littered with porn. He is stupid about it too he said it must be my husband but i can tell who logs on the computer...especially when my husband was in Texas several times when he logged in...stupid. Now I'm no prude I love monogamous sex and artful nudity is just fine. And I have even enjoyed some adult movies. But internet porn I just don't get at all. It's not appealing or exciting.
But it is a billion dollar industry so can that many guys be wrong. It must do something for them it doesn't for us.

The thing that bothers me about your story most is the fact that he lied which is not only a betrayal but also a possible sign he cant control himself and that he might be addicted to porn.
The continued denial is really really disturbing.
Have you let him know you know he is lying. I think you should have an open and honest conversation about this.
If he cant be honest with you I think you have bigger problems then porn.

Answer 3

I understand why your upset but 2 wrongs don't make a right. Not only that but what about privacy issues? The only issue I take with him is that he lied to you and for that reason you can't trust him. He should be honest and not be ashamed. After all, he has the right to look at whatever he wants and you have the right to find a new boyfriend. I believe that porn is wrong but let's face it, it's a billion dollar industry in this country for a reason. But I don't think that anyone should be looking at anyone else's computer, ever, unless it's a crime investigation. It's like reading their diary. You don't have the right to violate someone's privacy, only the federal goverment has that right. Sorry!

Answer 4

No, maybe it was a pop up why don't you just try to believe him instead of assuming somethin else. You never know, you might be the wrong one and you can get into a huge arguement over nothing. I'm assuming your still pretty young considering the fact that your getting "pissed" at your boyfriend for watching porno? Grow up, he should be able to watch what he pleases. He probably needs porno to feed his horney self. If so, deal with it. Guys hate it when you try to change who they really are.

Answer 5

Well first off...men looking at porn is inevitable. As long as he's not looking at sick stuff or kids then you just gotta let it go. There is a point where you have to draw the line, though. I checked the history once after my husband of five years had been using the computer and found out he has a profile on adultfriendfinder.com. You can bet he got his butt bitched out for that. If it really bugs you, you gotta stand up for yourself. Otherwise, choose your battles.

Answer 6

Haha oh yea. I caught by boyfriend and he immediatly lied because of the way I approached him about it. He got caught and saw how angry you got so that is why he is sticking to his story. Just let it go and next time bring it up in a more light hearted way, joke about it, that way you will make him feel like he can tell you. I mean it could be worse, at least hes not out cheating on you.

Answer 7

Yes...it really can happen that way. Unless he has installed a pop up blocker it is bound to happen. If he is looking...who cares! As long as it leads to something with you, let him have his fun! "Just because you're on a diet, don't mean you can't look in the bakery window!"

Answer 8

first, EVERY guy watches and owns porn and wants to own more. Second, women should not be offended or perturbed by this. we live out fantasies through these movies that have super hot, super sexy women. It obviously bothers you since you went snooping on his computer, which is a bigger issue in your relationship than him lying about the porn. he probably lied because he knows you'll freak out. break up with him and become a nun. oh, and eat your cocoa pebbles

Answer 9

well someone coudl have browsed porn gae it a worm those give worms so if he is in denial he is mortified embarrassed most guys watch it i found it on my bfs once.. dammit but he got a worm so .. to bad they arent real .. they need somethign to um.. when ur not around its a sickness if they get addicted perhaps try another guy .. is u have to spy ur not trusting him this isnt good .. at all not to trust by the way bf is an ex now ..

Answer 10

Thank god this poor man is the one that has to deal with your vile, snooping, wretched a s s. Better him than me. Oh wait, that would never happen cuz if you logged on to my computer I would kick your lame a s s to the curb so fast regardless of what you did or did not find. Why don't you ease up that vice grip you have on his nuts and concentrate on yourself...