I am 27 and my girlfriend is a 24 year old virgin. I slept with this other girl that was two doors down because I was really in the mood and she was very hot. I only like her in a physical way and not really more than that. My girlfriend found out about it and got very upset but I told her it was because I was really in the mood and I wanted her to be a virgin when she got married. We have been going out for 8 months and I have only slept with 6 other girls in that time period. Before that it was a lot more. She doesn't understand that guys need sex more than girls especially me because I'm not a virgin like she is. She ended up slapping me and I was like "what?!?". How can I get her to understand that I did this so she would still be a virgin? It really shows I care.
2006-09-01 13:45:48 · 25 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not doing it for her, you are a cheat and she needs to kick you to the curb. You clearly are not responsible or mature enough to be in a 1:1 relationship.
2006-09-01 13:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, telling yourself that you've done this for her is only convincing you. If you really cared about her and her choice to remain a virgin than this would not be an issue. In all honesty if I were her you'd have gotten a lot more than a slap. Also what you don't understand is that men and women need sex equally. Most women just won't admit to it because they've been trained to be ashamed of sex. Lastly you're not being a virgin isn't even an issue. You should respect her and her choices and learn how to be a man.
2006-09-01 13:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Book Goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Really??? Honest to heaven, you have to ask??? Re-read your entire statement again and tell me you don't know what to do: 1. You make plans and "most of the time" he flakes on you and you don't get upset and let him keep doing it. 2. You call him but he never answers and will call you back hours or days later. He's in a relationship with other women is why. 3. He is living with the mother of his children and you think they aren't together! 4. Supposedly she's leaving in 6 months. When Dec. gets here she will not have saved enough money or found a place to live. You could bet money on it. 5. He tells you to drive 70 miles to a party but he's too drunk to go. 6. He gets pissed because you didn't give him a gift. 7. He gets pissed because your family didn't sign up for a gym membership so he could get money from the sales. You're his meal ticket or your family is. 8. You get ticked and he doesn't care. 9. He calls you a liar, then wants sex, at his house where he ignores you, acts jealous, and the mother of his kids is living there. Jesus H and you'd have had sex if he'd been nicer upstairs while the mother of his children was downstairs?! 10. You actually apologized to this douche bag and offered him money! How the hell desperate are you for a man that you accept this kind of crap? You need to go look for your pride because you lost it somewhere. Put up flyers and offer a reward because it is a priority to get it back. No woman in her right mind would tolerate the BS he is displaying and handing out. His arrogance and lack of respect are overwhelming. And yet you let it happen, accept it, apologize when it should be the other way around times ten and then you offer the scumbag money! Take that money and go get counseling because you seem to have no sense of self-esteem and it is heartbreaking to read your story and know that you cannot see what we see, that you are that blind to it. What should you do? Get the hell away from him forever and never talk to the SOB again! Then go get counseling because if you have no sense of self, you're going to turn around and let another guy do this to you and be blind to it all over again. I hope you find your pride, you really need it! Good luck!
2016-03-27 03:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cute u care but if u really cared about her being pure you should want ur relationship to be pure too. She should be the only woman you want to be with. She is your girlfriend. You guys should break up because you seem like you have a need to spread your seed, and a girl like her should probably be with a better guy, no offense, cheating on with 6 others girls in a 8 month time period is just sad.
2006-09-01 13:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by bim1960 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I can kind of understand what your saying but the best way to show you care is to not sleep with other women. If you wait to have sex with her and not sleep with anyone else that really says something. I understand that you probably have those moments where you really need to do someone, but thats what makes it so much sweeter. It shows your willing to wait until shes ready because you only want her. Sorry that was kind of repetitive but im too lazy to erase it. Hope that helps
2006-09-01 13:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, please tell me this is a joke. "My girlfriend does not like to get punched in the face but I am a guy and I have a need to punch people in the face so why can't she understand that I am punching her in the face as a sign that I want to be with her? In the end, every time I hit her, it's just another sign that I'd rather hit her than somebody else." See how stupid that sounds? Well, perhaps that answers your questions. Keep your dick in your pants if you love her. Then again, if she is so stupid to still be with you, then maybe you are meant for each other.
2006-09-01 13:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nathan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see. So you are just taking one for the team (so to say). I don't understand how you can expect to be faithful, when you already admit to sleeping with 6 other people. Maybe you could refrain from sex until you get married also. Just a thought.
2006-09-01 13:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by maxwell3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u did not do that 4 her --u did that 4 u since u were lacking SEX
she should jus dump u an move along
if u really cared u would respect her wishes-which means not having SEX with other girls & waiting 4 her
u really dont no how to commit in a relationship
u bastard
2006-09-01 13:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Always Jolly AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing I can get your point and on her hand I get hers to.... but you gotta know that the real juice is worth the squeeze.... what I mean is if your willing to be with her your willing to wait for her...sex isn't just doing it its a connection with two peoples' souls... thats why so many people now are willing to wait to find that special someone to share there soul with
hope this advice helps: someone whos been throu so much in so little time
2006-09-01 13:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What planet are you from? You did it for her, that's such BS. If you love her keep it in your pants or take matters into your own hand until your married. If your having sex with all these different girls your doing it for yourself you poppas ***. It would serve you right if she walks out of your life forever. In other words grow up man.
2006-09-01 13:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by lonestaremt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋