Ever guy i go with its the same thing they start out to be Perfect then they start to get worse and worse and use me its like their thinking wh do i even try so just use me should i just go to girls?
2006-09-01 13:37:18 · 14 answers · asked by becca . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe you are afraid of commitment!
2006-09-01 13:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Jesus♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey first of all no man is perfect! Please do no allow yourself to be used let it go if it is not working. Move on because there are no benefits in it for you. Try to live without a guy in your life for a few weeks, take up a hobby and then try again. From what I understand some girl on girl relationships turn out the same way because one person in the relationship want to just use and abuse. Just wait give it some time Mr Almost Perfect is just around the corner. He will appreciate you so much and you will know the time is right. Take your time.
2006-09-01 20:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tom R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pause a moment and reflect. What it is you want in life? Happiness, that is the most ultimate goal for every human being. Some may deny it but its true. Why do some people want to eat chocolates? Because they want to be happy. And why they are happy eating the chocolates? because their short term goal has fulfilled.
Now as yourself? What makes you happy? What do you need in life that makes you happy? Maybe you have not yet achieved what your heart and your mind desires. Focus on that desire, and aim for it. That is what makes you happy.
If indulging with girls is your desire and makes you happy, you have the choice. Just think of it several times if by doing, it will not bring regret in your life. Fulfill your desires, fulfill your dream, expect for the unexpected and be happy.
2006-09-01 20:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by sunkenme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop! you need to find out what's happening with you before your next relationship. You're probably making the same mistakes over and over again. Ask your closest friend what they think about you and your relationships, if they are honest, you just might find out a few things.
2006-09-01 20:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by ann m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt go to girls that is just nasty! you should take a break from being in relationships and spend time just for you and when you are happy with you then maybe you can find a man that you can be happy with
2006-09-01 20:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by southern angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those are the type of guys you are attracting.When you are ready for a commitment and are emotionally healthy you will attract the same type of guy.
2006-09-02 09:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by drokk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one is comming for u one day
2006-09-01 20:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the type your attracted to and no one is perfect.
2006-09-01 20:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying the right one is out there and will come along
2006-09-01 20:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u r goin for the wrong type of guys...not all guys go for gals to use them
2006-09-01 20:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are an immature brat! And thankfully you haven't married someone and ruined their life.
2006-09-01 20:44:11 · answer #11 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋