well me and my g/f argued last night because supposly i said sumthin she didnt like, all i said that i know i messed up and so what, but she took if offenseive, well she stoped talkin to me, i know she mad at me, n i think its goin down hill from here, what do u guys think? should i leave her alone, or what should i do?
2006-09-01 13:29:07 · 21 answers · asked by ClickSubscribe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"i know i messed up and so what"
how do you not see anything wrong with what you said? shes upset with the fact you said "so what" to something that upsets her. its not a "so what".. you should have tried saying "i know i messed up and I'm really sorry for that baby. NOT "i know i messed up and so what".. i guarantee 100% that is why she is mad. never so what a girl after YOU did something wrong. dont so what that. your making it seem like you messing up is not a big deal. take actions for what you did and never say "so what" to a mistake you did. dont leave her alone. u freakin apologize for what you said. tell her u know saying "so what" was wrong and tell her you didn't mean for it to come out that way" and bring her some flowers. c'mon be a gentleman. hope i helped you, good luck and god bless you both!
2006-09-01 13:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by u lovee it ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now let's think about this...... you admitted that you messed up, but what exactly did you mess up? That's probably what she's mad about.... that and the fact that you followed it up with "so what"..... if you really care about her, I would suggest buying her some flowers (her favorites) or something else that you know would make an impression. Your woman is your prize jewel, you are suppose to take care of her and keep her safe, then when you need her she'll be there for you and she'll give up everything to stand up for you.
2006-09-01 20:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Aggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships have their ups and downs if you want to leave everytime she gets an attitude because of something you said better off with a pet. We as woman are very sensitive and men tend to not think before they speak. Apologize to her for not considering her feelings when you made the remark.
2006-09-01 20:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether or not you leave her alone should depend on how the whole relationship is going and if you think it's worth it to stay together. about the arguement she probably just wants you to realize you hurt her feelings and be sincerely sorry that you did. some things are bigger deals to girls than they are to guys. that's just the way it is. :)
2006-09-01 20:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by sayin you messed and and then saying SO WHAT?? ya shes pissed because to her it seemed like you didnt care then if you messed up. so until she gets over being pissed at you,,i think you should just leave her alone for now.
2006-09-01 20:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're giving up just like that??????? Be a man, learn to say you're sorry. If you really cared for this woman you will work it out. c'mon, she is worth it, right? And here you are asking your fellow shallow friends for advice. Sometimes we just got to listen to our hearts.
2006-09-01 20:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by ann m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro Im in the same boat. Seriously F em.
2006-09-01 20:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers w/ a nice card and tell her to meet you for coffee to talk. You must be sensitive, and communicate. Listen to her, and be good.
2006-09-01 20:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by bobbie e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone for now, let her cool down.
2006-09-01 20:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh you dumb ignorant sap. you never say "so what", those words to a woman mean that everything about her and everything she says is a "so what"
whatever happens, even if it is your fault, you always say, "I'm sorry darling. I was wrong. I don't know what I was thinking"
then, you go have sex. good, long, sex
2006-09-01 20:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by JJohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋