This girl I dated wont leave me alone. What happened was that my friend introduced us and at first she wanted to be sex buddies and I wanted to get into a relationship with her. She started lieing to me and never told me the truth with what she really wanted. After things got bad she told me I wasnt her type. Then I told her that I dont want to associate with her anymore. She calls me still and i hang up without saying a word, and everytime she sees me she tries to talk to me while I still walk right by her. She says she wants to be friends I told her I cant be friends with someone I have feelings for. Why cant she respect my decision and leave me alone?
2006-09-01 13:13:20 · 27 answers · asked by canuck131986 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wouldn't it be interesting if we could read women's minds? We would either solve all our problems with them or make them much worse. this girl obviously has feelings for u of some sort or she wouldn't keep coming back. It seems that u have 2 options apparent to me , u could sacrifice your feelings and befriend her which may give u more answers , or keep ignoring her , giving u none and leaving u wondering , which is why your here now . As for the answer to your question (why cant she respect my decision to leave me alone?) i would have better luck telling u why the sun rises , the sky is blue or the grass is green .
2006-09-01 13:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's the type to play with your emotions. I used to be that type of girl. She can't handle the fact that you are ignoring her and she wants your attention. Even though she said you weren't her type. It's a game. You are better off with out her. Give it a week and she will move on to some other prey
2006-09-01 20:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh That's a tough one.. Females tend to get their heart attached no matter if it started off a relationship or not!
I think your best bet is to call your phone company and block her number from calling you.. She may then get just how serious you are when she calls just to find out her number has been blocked.. That usually makes someone get the point!
2006-09-01 20:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Kamaree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have almost the same problem except I'm the girl and the guy can't get a clue. Ignoring him, not speaking when he talks to me, telling him "I don't want to talk to you", telling him "I don't want anything to do with you" didn't work. I've decided in my case it was an ego thing. He couldn't stand me not wanting him. Now he tells lies to my friends. Maybe your girl only wants what she can't have.
2006-09-01 21:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds indecisive. But, maybe she has realized that she has feelings for you too. Why not just talk to her and explain to her that you want a relationship with her and that if she doesn't want one then thats it. Some people need to hear things straight to their face before they really understand it.
2006-09-01 20:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she knows you like her a lot and she gets satisfaction of knowing this when you are around. She wants you to be around her so that she can say herself "He wants me but I don't want him..Oh My God I am so pretty".
2006-09-01 20:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by torontofabsingle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc she is stupid and wants to play games with u..and she knows she can bc u are into her or not..just get caller id and ignore her i mean act like she dont matta at all maybe she will fade away
2006-09-01 20:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have feelings for her, then You should want her there at the ready for when she comes around.
2006-09-01 20:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by Spaghetti MY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She either wants sex again, or her feelings for you are more than what she's telling you.
2006-09-01 20:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess she only wants to be needed and wanted. once she got what she wants, she would get bored. she just wants to take advantage of u. she needs self-actualization. u should leave her
2006-09-01 20:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by light_angel123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋