So you hear that guys aren't just attracted to a girl by her weight, but I find this hard to believe...It seems that time and time again guys go for the girl with smaller waist. I;m not sayin that I don't like guys with hot bods...but it's a lil more than that. And if your thinking that I'm over really over weight, I'm not.
2006-09-01 13:11:06 · 16 answers · asked by ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not shy...actually very outgoing and have been tols I'm a lot of fun and have a great personality...I get hit on all the time and no, I'm not fat...I'm more thick...smaller waist...just have a butt and thighs. I have been told that I'm beautiful and so forth. I dont think I'm ugly...I was just wanting to know what the general take on this was.
2006-09-01 13:34:50 · update #1
No fat chicks on this ride.
2006-09-01 13:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not totally skinny... but I'm not huge either and I have a lot of guys that hit on me. It's not your size that matters.... it's your attitude. My guess is that you are shy b/c you are a few pounds over weight and since you have been turned down in the past, you are afraid of being bold. OR you have recently come out of a long relationship and now you don't know how to find your flirty, exciting side anymore. Call your girlfriends up, do your hair and makeup different than you normally do, and just go out and have fun. Be loud and funny and SMILE, you will see how everybody is attrated to the life of the party.
2006-09-01 13:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Aggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you fat or thick? you have to be one. I am a very good looking guy, I'm not being egotistical...okay I am...but I do get told all the time that or I'm hot, sexy, etc. by women and men. Beauty can come in any shape and size, BUT a girl can be too skinny and too big for me, though I may find her beautiful in the face or personality, I am not sexually attracted to her because she is too skinny or she's fat. Skinny is okay, though most girls who are skinny with jeans on are A LOT worse when they come off. I like girls who are a little thick, not a stomach, but thicker thighs, thicker butt. that is perfect. and boy are they great in bed
2006-09-01 13:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by JJohn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! There are tons of guys who like real women. Shapely women, thick women who wear it well. Most of the time, guys do what is popular, what will get them the least amount of grief from his friends and society. TV and marketing says go for the women who are small and skinny. Personally, I don't think they are attractive. Ya got to have some meat on you if you want to call yourself a woman. Marketing has so much to do with it. Every commercial you see, magazine ad you read, or movie you watch. They tell people what is "socially" popular and acceptable. Women with shape and curves are much hotter and more attractive than girls who look like skeletons.
2006-09-01 13:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by cliffb52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, I dont really like really skinny girls. Most of the time I prefer personality over looks. I mean sure looks do have influence in a decision but I mostly look at personality.
2006-09-01 13:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self, theres somewhat no suited answer to this query. no one looks suited, some adult men are stupid and unload a woman for yet another. Dont take it as a insult in basic terms take it as a fool guy. If a guy likes you he will come to you, except you recognize he likes you and hes shy. in case you fairly want a guy you additionally could make a flow on a stunning guy. terrific of success! =)
2016-12-18 03:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. being a PHAT women I know regardless of how attractive my face is or that i am curvier than the others it takes twice as long to get the guys attention. It almost seems as if I have to do a head stand or something.
2006-09-01 13:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Keshia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so. they pay attention to if ur pretty or not.. those
A S S H O L E S!!! they also pay attention 2 if ur a hoe or not. thats y ive never had a bf. (im only 14) they used 2 ask me out alot and id turn them down cuz they wanted sumthin from me. i was like hellz no!! then they laid off of me except for a few guys that really did like me.
2006-09-01 13:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, when they grow up some it changes, i don't mean that you can be sloppy fat but thick is ok. I'm thick but I'm very muscular and i do have a small waist.
2006-09-01 13:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not, I am skinny, and alot of guys want a girl with meat on her bones.
2006-09-01 13:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah most guys like it crunchy. there are a few good men who don't mind the baby fat, a little extra weight is only some cushion. of course we don't want fat slobs either.
2006-09-01 13:16:10 · answer #11 · answered by Eryc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋