I am starting dating this new girl, (i am over 21 ,,so i fell so bad,,b/c i have zero expereince).. so when I should kiss her.. when i should go to base 1,2 and when is it is time for home run.. I mean how many dates for each stage.. and how i know she wil be ok with kiss, when i kiss her and when i can grap her down chest and down..
help me zero experience.. I am worried what if i kiss her and it make her mad and can she dump me?or think i am pervert.. or on the otherhand if i dont kiss her, she can think that I am not man..i mean she think that why I am not kissing her...how i know
2006-09-01 12:46:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should have sex with her on the first date... that's what i would do if i was you.
2006-09-01 12:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although I'm 14, (and had experiance), I would'nt usually mock people..but LOL..
But give it some serious thought wheather making out or taking 'home-runs', if you're going to be a decent man and faithful, then go for it, give her a few kisses, like when you meet up with her, and when you leave her..or other times to say 'here you go..' when buying her a gift.
women do like surprises after all, and love romantic guys..and **** like shopping, y'know.
I'd most probably give it like..a month before you attempt 1st and 2nd 'bases', but give it a little bit later like 3-4 months before moving for the 'home-run' (lol).
But don't forget it's up to her as well, like..she might not be up to it herself and all..
So just be yourself, go with the flow..don't be embarressed or shy, just do what feels good.
Nitrogen.
2006-09-01 19:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with holding her hand. A kiss at the end of the night is traditional and you can gauge her reaction to the end of night kiss as to whether she is into you.
As for grabbing her chest and lower, leave that for about a month or so.
2006-09-01 19:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your not kidding. Then I think that is soo sweet, but weird also. Anyway you will know when your ready to kiss and or make out when she either tells you, you ask, it just happens to come up in convo, or you feel she is really into you. Don't force anything. Show that your very interested but be cool about it. Don't scare her!
2006-09-01 19:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read up man. I learned how to do all of that stuff through experience, but there's a lot of resources now on how to get through what you're about to go through.
Whatever you do, don't GRAB her! haha You must be soft and gentle with everything (until sex, but that's a different story).
2006-09-01 19:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by oldbutperhapsnotwise 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the end of your next date lean over and give her a little kiss. If she is not ok with it she will stop you, or pull away.
2006-09-01 19:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by SVW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you are a p-u-s-s-y
Next, stop being a p-u-s-s-y
You need to NOT CARE what she thinks, that way you'll just be you little perverted self.
Just go for it - she'll let you know how far she'll let you go - just respect her limits
If she won't bang after three dates - dump her azz and move on
2006-09-01 19:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she really likes you all that will not matter, you will know when the time is right. Let her know that you are nerves about it and explain you not very experience at it. She will understand if she truly cares.
2006-09-01 19:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
rent some porn and take notes
2006-09-01 19:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget my advice
2006-09-04 03:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋