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I realy like her and i am looking for some tips

2006-09-01 12:33:03 · 11 answers · asked by nisi1t 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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tell her how you really feel about her
then take her out on dates, as a friend ;]
buy her flowers, choclates
show her you really love her
and she might consiter going on a date with you

2006-09-02 09:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Cree♥ 2 · 0 0

It's all about you man. If you don't show confidence and you have a life beyond her, forget it. Women THRIVE on confidence. You have to brim with it. Put your attention elsewhere. Give her a little friend time, but start looking at other girls. It can't hurt to tell her about the other girls you are interested in either. If she's going to be a buddy, use her as a wing woman. Once she sees you with another pretty girl, she'll want you.

2006-09-01 12:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by oldbutperhapsnotwise 1 · 0 0

Well, it's impossible to make someone think of you a certain way, but you can give her something to think about.

We all have lots of different sides to our personalities. Has she seen you acting like date material?

Let's put it this way - I love my husband to death, and we started as friends, but on our honeymoon, he took me out to dinner, suit and everything, made reservations, escorted me to the table, was assured, confident - I was used to t-shirts, jeans and chili dogs. My knees went weak. He was charming, sexy - we'd been friends for over a year, dating for two more, yet I'd never seen this side of him.

Our relationship would have moved a whole lot faster had I seen that aspect of him sooner. I got all fluttery and developed a huge crush on this man I already loved.

Romance works. Romance novels sell for a reason - lots of women like the occasional break from tennies, jeans and chili dogs, like to dress up and be a woman with a man, not just two guys going out together.

Ask her to lunch, or dinner. Share some interest with her she isn't aware of, or explore something new together (like art museums, or a play - gives you something new to talk about). Let her see you in a new way - and see more of what's inside you than just her buddy. She may not respond - but she might.

2006-09-01 12:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0 0

Dude, there are some girls that like guys for frinds or closer than friends. Have you ever stop to think that there is something about you to turn her away. Maybe you should try flirting with her and try to turn her in to you and not turn her away from you. Try to make where you too have to spend alot or time together like a "class project" maybe. TRY TO BE A TURN ON NOT A TURN OUT!!!

2006-09-01 12:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla G 1 · 0 0

if she just wants to be buddys she is probably not interested... so just be a really good friend but dont let her forget that u have feelings for her then maybe she will start to like u back... dont push it though or u will lose a friend

2006-09-01 12:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Girl 2 · 0 0

well have u asked her out as more than a friend yet? if u have and she said no then dont push her in to it just let it go as wants to and if u havent then just ask her out more than a friend. so dont push her into it just if u want her to like u then do something great for her give her something she would love or do something for her like something fun or nice or sweet.

2006-09-01 12:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You're already in the "friends" category. Its almost assured you are stuck there permanently as its very rare for a guy to get from "i like him as a friend" to more than friends.

2006-09-01 12:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by someavgguy 2 · 0 0

She's just not that into you. Move on and find someone else. No means no.

2006-09-01 12:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0 0

give her time...go places as friends...hang ut...maybe try to flirt...hopefully, after a month or two..she'll fall hard for you ;]

2006-09-01 12:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pyar Ki Pari♥ 4 · 0 0

ask her out or tell your parents to take you guys to a scary movie.

2006-09-01 12:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by roquel c 1 · 0 0

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