My sister just started falling for a guy enrolled in University. The problem is, he likes her too, and they're about to start going out. This might involve even oral sex. Is this right? What do I tell her, or should I keep my mouth shut?
2006-09-01 12:06:21 · 24 answers · asked by techronarrow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm with you. This sounds too creepy. Ask your sister, "If you were a 19 year old guy, would hang out with a 14 year old? Or would you want someone more your age?"
The guy may have good taste to be interested in your sister, but he should be really turned off by her age no matter how cute and pretty she is.
2006-09-01 12:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any guy in university, who can't get a girl his own age is a real LOSER! Ask your sis how it feels to make herself into a convenient piece of *ss for this dude. (You KNOW he is not going to confine his "pleasure" to oral sex alone!)
Tell her you're disappointed in her pick of boyfriends. Tell her that you think she'd be much better off dating guys her own age. If you're really desperate, find the hottest 14 year old guy around and introduce them.
DON'T just keep your mouth shut. YOUR BABY SISTER NEEDS GUIDANCE.
2006-09-01 12:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha ok, i'm not a guy, yet I do have a brother who's 17, i'm 13 suitable now. My condominium is amazingly small so theres rather no the place you're able to be in inner maximum, and when I even have my era I omit alot of school. Now, me and my brother are rather close, yet I easily do not think of i could desire to tell him the certainty. i might constantly only tell him I wasn't feeling sturdy. SOMETIEMS i think of he may be responsive to, using fact i would not say i'm ill consistent with se, yet like yeah. Aha, I only think of it would be uncomfortable for the two one human beings if I advised him.
2016-10-01 04:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by stepp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that he could get locked up for statutory rape, even though it's a consensual relationship. If I were you, I'd tell her that - if she really cared for him, she wouldn't risk ruining his life with a felony conviction. If they still love each other in four years, then they can get together as equals. Right now, she should be dating guys closer to her own age.
2006-09-01 12:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Danger, Will Robinson! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not ok.
If she were my sister, first I will advise him to leave my sister alone, or else I will make a report to the authorities of his behaviour. The authorities will be his university and his parents. If he still ignore this warning then I will report to the police.
A guy in that age, has only one thing in his mind. And when he gets it, guess who will get hurt?
Be smart yourself and do something about it for your sister's sake.
2006-09-01 12:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by camellia_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it isn't ok. your sister is too young for him. it is illegal for them to be having sex, even oral sex. you should tell her, don't keep your mouth shut. you're her brother, you should watch out for her and stand up for her when needed. if talking to her doesn't keep her away from him then you should talk to the guy to tell him to leave your sister alone. it is very inappropriate for them to be dating especially having sex. you better watch out for your sister.
2006-09-01 12:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by swtcocoa231 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not good at all. Your sister is a child and a 19 year old is an adult, apparently a stupid one. Do you have parents? They should know.
2006-09-01 12:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by boop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because if he is it's only for one thing and you know what that is. No you shouldn't keep your mouth shut because she needs to be told that this is not alright and she will eventually get hurt, hopefully not physically. This is definitely something you should not be quiet about.
2006-09-01 12:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by concrete_rose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Eh, that's illegal. Sick perv can't get a girl his own age to do this so he gets your sister to do it? Disgusting. I'd punch this guy if I were you. If he really liked her and they were "in love", it wouldn't involve oral sex so soon.
2006-09-01 12:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by bluntbabe74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not ok for them two to hook-up and date or do whatever. there is 5 years between them and she is so young. tell her not to do that and save herself for the one she is eventually going to marry. be a good brother and talk to her before she gets hurt. Oh yeah and it's illegal
2006-09-01 12:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by butterflygirl790 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋