My partner and I will be having sex and I want to stop.But she keeps going.I've tried just stoping but she just insists that we keep at it.I've also tried saying that I have to go to the bathroom.That works but I don't want to have to do that everytime.HELP?!
2006-09-01 11:56:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a difficult question:
you want to stop having sex and wat to have those wishes respected by your partner;
but on the other hand you do not want to say something direct that will result in her feeling rejected by you.
Can I suggest that there is a way to tell her without words using natural body language.
Ask her to perform oral sex. When you have had enough, and without saying anything that will hurt her feelings, break wind.
Please let us all know how you get on.
2006-09-01 12:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Pastor Sauce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be open and honest enough with her to discuss things like this then perhaps you shouldn't be having sex. Maybe take turns deciding when you are done. It wouldn't feel too good if you were "not done" and all of a sudden she said she wanted to stop.
2006-09-01 12:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Guy Incognito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to guess the two of you don't have the same level of drive. Without more info its hard to get a real reading on your situation.
Is it going on a long long time to where you are just thinking "OK, thats enough" if she is a nympho, or do you just get bored of it easily?
2006-09-01 12:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by someavgguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a strange question!
I realy don't know the answer, but I gtuess that some other guys in here maybe can help you out.
2006-09-01 12:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by celia3018 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what every other man does in that situation. Roll over and go to sleep.
2006-09-01 12:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
scissor lock on the head
2006-09-01 12:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try yelling stop oh god stop in a very sexy voice or something and say you have done me so well........lol
2006-09-01 11:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try finishing her off manually or ask her to do it to herself while you watch, tell her it turns you on.
2006-09-01 12:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Timothy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend to fall asleep!
2006-09-01 12:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋