I had been dating this guy for 8 yrs now and well since i got my car last november and his mom and dad got caugt driving by the police with out insurance and his dad got put in jail they dont drive there car anymore well it's been a year almost now and they still ask me for rides and i told my boyfirend that i cant do nomore runing for them cause it's not my place and it's getting old plus wearing my car down doing so much running that was in febuary when i said that to him and he got mad about it. when i had my permit over the summer last year i lived with him and his parents and it was hell then feb. when i got my liceses i came back home. but i can go with out 3 days going over there and when i do go back over there his mom wants me do running it's like i dont go over there to see him i feel like they are using me and wanting me over cause of my car. I dont know what to do i am sick and tired of it and i dont know how to talk to my boyfriend about it with out him getting mad HELP!!!
2006-09-01 11:21:17 · 21 answers · asked by baby girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay strong.. Sounds like they are using you... If you don't want to do something then don't... Just because you are dating there son does not mean that they get to use the same benifits that he does... he should not even drive your car... But because he is your MAN you let him.. But his parents are grown and need to depend on themselves.... Stand up for rights and do as you say.. and say what you mean
2006-09-01 11:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them use you! I used to be like you but to tell you the truth there are a lot of people out there that are very good at using the little things to put you on the spot and get what they want. Your boyfriend needs to realize you are HIS girlfriend not his parents chauffeur! You need to have a serious and long conversation with him and tell him that after 8 yrs you would appreciate it if he backed you up in this matter because it is very important to you. If he give you a response that you don't feel good about then maybe you guyz need to see what needs to be done about moving on because he is getting to comfortable with having you do too much for his family and not taking your side now can really be a glimpse of the future to come. Anyway, it was not your fault his parents don't know the law, and didn't have insurance!
2006-09-01 11:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by sexy052281 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have been together for 8 years but since your were just kids....I think you might need some space and respect from him, and his family.....I think you should talk to him, tell him how you fell, if he can't understand you or respect your wishes, then even though it's been a long time, maybe you are just like another sibling to them....think about it, and make a decision, either he loves you and respects what you think and the effort you have put into this all ready or he doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-01 11:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The IRS allows something like 50 cents or more per mile on taxes. Add up the mileage and ask your boyfriend to reimburse you and if he balks, tell him he needs to get it from his parents on your behalf. If he doesn't comply; if he gets mad because you don't want to be used, dump him and find a new boyfriend.
You deserve better than to be used for your car.
2006-09-01 11:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by JoeFunSmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by keeven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him either he gets them some bus passes or he dont have to worry about seeing you come over there any more. And if he gets mad, so what it is your car not his.
2006-09-01 11:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and see if they want to pitch in for the gas... or tell them you are having car promblems and not drive for a while.. Why doesn't your bf drive?
2006-09-01 11:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, they are taking serious advantage of you. If I were you I would consider dropping the whole thing relationship and all, it sounds like they have a loser family afterall. Get out while you can
2006-09-01 11:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him all what u just said, if u have been seeing him for as long as you have then he should understand. if he cant understand that how many more things will yal have problems wit? i mean after that long something that small shouldnt get in the way like it is.
2006-09-01 11:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them im very happy to help you guys out but let me tell you that im getting very tired and im sorry but i cant do it anymore. They should respect that. Good Luck!!! :)
2006-09-01 11:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋