Like whats going on in MY life is none of my busness and all adults I know act like I don't understand ANYTHING even though I do and they just continue to treat me like they need to repeat everything to get it to me when I already did and I keep telling them that!! WHY?!!
2006-09-01 11:08:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
coz kids are kids
2006-09-01 11:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be treated as an adult, you first must act as an adult. Take a look at what you have written. It is one long, rambling statement which jumps from one point of view to the next.
In other words...something a child would write.
I do not deny that you deserve privacy and that your opinions have worth.
But you have to show you are capable of handling the responsibilities you have now in order to garner new freedoms.
It takes time...and that's what you have the most of.
2006-09-01 18:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Grundoon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adults still think they know Everything and that You have no clue whatsoever. If they are genuinely concerned about you and the state of mind that the youth are in, I understand their point. But if they are hounding you, and discouraging you, I would let them know that. Sometimes though, its just best to sit back and let them talk, you know right from wrong. Right? That's all that matters.
2006-09-01 18:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of adults think their experience means they know better than you, even when they don't. Also, a lot of times they forget that you're growing up, so you understand more things, not to mention the adults who repeat things because they forgot they already told you.
2006-09-01 18:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand the age difference.if they say something just hear it patiently.if u become aggressive or loose ur temper or even with ur expressions show that what they r saying is not worth listening they will irrritate u more. do what u feel comfortable but don't let them know about it.
even sometimes volunteer to ask some suggestions from them. they will feel that they are important to u and would start respecting u and ur decisions.
2006-09-01 18:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by meeta g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some younger people are not totally aware of what is really going on, in the real world that is. Actions speak louder than words so prove you can be an adult in your words and actions
2006-09-04 16:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by suzanne_sauls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are doing it because, as corny as it sounds, they love you. They do not want you to think you have to grow up so fast and miss out on the joys of being young. Instead of resenting them for trying to do thier best for you, listen respectfully, say yes m'am and yes sir, and then they will realize you are getting what they are trying to tell you.
2006-09-01 18:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by mother_of_bonehead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause they think that since they already lived life, younger kids dont understand anything.
2006-09-01 18:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the way it is. they treated me like that. thier parents did to them....and you will to yours. its a protection kind of thing... also they have a fear of you .. um... not getting it... getting into a problem...and having to worry how bad of a prob will you get into.. it a parental thing.. they cant help it... and you have to understand you are young... they have to learn to let go and trust you... you are thier baby... try and understand that. its hard i know. but we all go thru it
2006-09-01 18:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by pencilnbrush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they think they have all the answers, while in reallity they don't know anything
2006-09-01 18:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋