2006-09-01 11:01:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I guess you will need to go back to your solicitor/lawyer and go back to court.
However, this is not going to help you this weekend.
Does she give you any good reason or just a straightforward refusal? It could be she needs to get them ready to go back to school or something?
I cannot see the point of calling the police - although she may be breaching a court order, I don't think she is committing a criminal offence and the police have better things to do so that everyone doesn't moan that they are not doing their job!!!
2006-09-01 11:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends whether you are referring to an order of the court in England and Wales or another jurisdiction. If England and Wales, you need to refer to your lawyer. If there is a pattern of this sort of flouting of the court's order, your lawyer may wish to apply to the court for a more defined contact order. If she is harming your child in some way, whether physical or emotional, it may be necessary to seek a residence order in your favour. It will depend on the circumstances and the jurisdiction. Only if there is a penal notice attached to the order can you apply to the court to have her committed to the prison and the court will be reluctant to agree to that, and will not send her to prison lightly.
2006-09-01 11:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and your lawyer. There is not much else that you can do after that. But, I would them on the phone right away so that they can do something before the weekend actually gets here. Good luck. I am sorry that you have to go through this.
2006-09-01 11:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by katethefabulous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make your child a legal football.
I know it's hard to not see your child but as a parent you have to put them first.
How do you think they feel about HAVING to see you because the court is ordering them to.
There are no winners in this sort of legal battle, you've already lost your wife and by resorting to the courts you're risking losing your child as well.
Wait until they are 18 and then make contact with them again when they can make their own decisions about seeing you.
2006-09-01 13:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF i was you i would take him back to court the **** .one of my daughter's is having the same sort of problem you are having.
Her ex-partner is to interested in his new tart of a tart.
And this part is from my wife.
spread it around that your ex-partner wold rather go out on the town and get laid instead of looking after her own kids the cow she is
2006-09-01 12:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your solicitor or the police and tell them you have a court order out, the police will arrest him or stop him taking the child.
dont sit back and allow this to happen, a court order was taken out for a reason.
2006-09-01 11:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apply to the courts for a penal notice. Your solicitor can tell you how to do this.
If the order is breached again there will be penalties!
2006-09-01 11:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by idontknow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the cops show your proof and you should get the kid and next week go back to family court and inform them of what has happen over the weekend so they can set another court date and inform him or her what the judge ordered
2006-09-01 11:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by teresa d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
report the incident to the court they will in turn see to it that he follows the court order in the future or he can be fined or jailed.
2006-09-01 11:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by njredgrl32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your lawyer & keep your kid completely insulated from the issue altogether.
2006-09-01 11:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋