that I never fully worked out from my past relationship..he has been supportive this whole time I have been with him(1 1/2 yrs.), so I told him last night the same thing I told him about a month ago, that I need a break from this so I can just concentrate on me and get my **** together...a month ago he told me that he doesnt think we need it and we can work this out together and honestly he has gone throughj many breaks with others before and they never got back together and he loves me soo much...well now more things have stressed me out since than and Ihave to be hinest with him and myself..so I told him last night, he was hurt and crying and upset and told me that "fine if you need a break than we will take a break" but with anger and attitude..he knows what I am trying to do with my life, but he said he does not want to loose me, I told him that he wont and this will make us both stronger in the end...he asked for a time frame of the break so he can prepare himself, etc..
2006-09-01 10:44:39 · 7 answers · asked by nrsechica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he is willing to do what you want done to get your head back in the game. Be kind to him, he sounds like a nice guy.
2006-09-01 10:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pretty brave to tell him how you fell.....still, if you really love him, why take a break??? I mean, sometimes we need space, but don't get this things confused, you could be with your boyfriend and tell him to respect your space a little more, because of everything that you have going on right know.....but don't make him think you need a break from him, get on your own...and then what will you do if he decides you didn't value him or the fact that he wanted to go through this with you...think about it, you can still have space but not let go.
2006-09-01 17:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be there for you and be supportive, why would you deny yourself something that's good for you? I think he's already accepted your issues - he hasn't left yet, has he?
Maybe it's time to just get it out in the open, and then don't let them control you too much - try living a calm life with someone who loves you instead of a solo existence wrapped in worries. You just might like it.
Live, Love, Breathe, Laugh
2006-09-01 17:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just stay together and figure things out at the same time? You don't need to officially end the relationship just so you can do that.
2006-09-01 17:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, you have a good guy, honey. He cried! That's a real man. Now, tell him that you'll sure as heck give it a shot. But you still love him no matter what. He's your shoulder to cry on. Literally. Use it. Cry, scream and shout, he'll understand you need to discover yourself. Go to that little coffee shop you wanted to try and do it. Now. Cry cry cry, and cry some more.
2006-09-01 17:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to sort out your things on your own, i, as your bf, would be upset too.
people in relationships should have to power to share shitty situations.
i can see why your bf is not so happy about taking the break. because it shows that you don't think that you can handle the thing togheter...
do you really want this relationship to work out? give it a thought and then be honest with him....
2006-09-01 17:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there something absolutely you cant work out with him? why is it that you need a break? I guess i cant really say anything yet, i dont have enough information as to why you would want to break from him if past relationships are what you need to get over and he seems to want to help you.
2006-09-01 17:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋