but everything else is great . so it's not that easy to just f***ck them off. because u love/respect them etc?
2006-09-01 10:27:26 · 16 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Brutal Honesty--The kind of topic you wish you never had to get in to. If your partner is interested in ensuring you have a great experience in the bedroom, he will listen, learn and make this thing happen.
Be very specific, very factual and completely without fear about his feelings. Once he is over the initial shock of your candid demands, he will appreciate your coaching in making him a better lover.
Both people struggle through problem this but both win in the long term.
2006-09-01 10:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by famousblue11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might be a little bit hard. I don't know if the person would still want to be friends. Sometimes it is hard to be friends with someone once you have already been down that road with them Just try not to hurt their feelings too bad. Tell them how you feel but in a respectful way.
2006-09-01 17:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think you've answered it yourself.Sounds more like a great friendship than a loving relationship.Hope everything works out for u.
2006-09-01 17:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer has to do with some of the important an intrinsic aspects of 'friendship.'
If you mucked it up, then you mucked it up, and if you now have to 'find ways of holding the friendship together,' then it means that it has to be A: mutually wanted and worked at, or B) that's it, it's done and gone.
Just try not to ''do it'' with those you see a Friends.
I tend to find them somewhat few and far between and valuable.
Best of luck.
Sash.
2006-09-01 17:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love and respect the person why not talk to them about this problem...there are lots of ways to resolve this....why not visit a sex shop for some hint/tips or naughty underwear etc.....
good luck
2006-09-01 17:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him/her out in the bedroom. Maybe you should buy toys to help enhance the experience
2006-09-01 17:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Apollo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go to a novelty store and you guys can experiment with some toys. It brings spice and makes sex a lot better.
2006-09-01 17:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by dixiepixie1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own q keep it a friendship and play it for what it is friends only
2006-09-01 18:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by eyeswideshut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE YOU TRIED TALKING TO THIS PERSON ABOUT YA LL SEX LIFE? SOME TIMES IT HELPS TRUST ME,, MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAD THE MOST BORING SEX LIFE. HE THOUGHT THAT EVERY THING WAS ALL GOOD AND IT WASN'T BECAUSE I WAS NOT PLEASED OR HAPPY. SO WE DISCUSSED IT AND HE CHANGED AND WHEN I TELL YOU THAT OUR SEX LIFE IS THE BOMB NOW, I CAN'T GET ENOUGH.
2006-09-01 17:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by UNKNOWN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your married chet ?to get what you want sex and have all the love at home (its good fun just don't get cought it gets the hart going )
2006-09-02 16:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by jimc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋