My boyfriend wants me to have anal sex with him... I've had regular sex with him... what does it feel like? What should I do?
2006-09-01 10:16:40 · 11 answers · asked by jakegondidude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl...I never thought I would like it..but damn it feels soooo good...You have to be completly relaxed, otherwise it will hurt, make sure he puts lube on you and him lie on your back or tummy and let him finger your rim and finger your asshole a little first before he puts it in..than have him just slowly keep putting it inand out little by little until he can slowly put it in all the way..and than just go..girl it feels so good..if you like it you can lie on your back and put a dildo in your pussy and its like double penetration
2006-09-01 10:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by nrsechica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do that unless you really want to. If he demands it of you, even if you don't want to, he obviously has no respect for you.
If you do it:
It will hurt, and for the woman, there will be no physical arousal (though some find it psychologically arousing). You might want to try stimulating your clitoris. Also, it is unsanitary- he will get your feces on him, so make sure you both bathe afterwards.
If you are thinking of doing this with him, you should get a lubed dildo and try doing it yourself, to see whether it hurts too much. Since your boyfriend cannot feel what you do he would not be as responsive.
If a man wants to have anal sex with me, I say I'll try it, provided he first lets me penetrate him anally with a strapon dildo. Never had any takers.
It's unfair for a man to say he wants to shove something up your anus when he would never have something shoved up his anus. Men actually feel pleasure from it due to the prostate gland, but since women don't have this, it just feels like a lump of congealed feces being shoved the wrong way up your colon.
2006-09-01 17:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start slow and warm up; use plenty of lube.
2006-09-01 17:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just take your time, he my not fit at first so it takes a little practice.
2006-09-01 17:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow someone has problems now dont they.. cuz fighting online is really really low.
2006-09-02 10:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do it if you want to.
2006-09-01 17:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead
2006-09-01 17:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want to
2006-09-01 17:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by pip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. men and women love it. it is hot and sexy. and you will love it once you try it.
2006-09-01 17:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by nater807 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it f'n hurts, without lube, don't do it.
2006-09-01 17:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by prettyprincess333b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋