Im 16 and ive got a 1 month old baby called Leo. i love him and try to be a good dad, but now that me and his mother have split up im now shagging her best friend. She doesnt know im doing this, altho we HAVE split up...and i dont really know how to tell her it, or should i?
2006-09-01 10:15:54 · 28 answers · asked by Brummie Geeza 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not obligated to tell anyone who you are shagging...so I would say no! Although she might be a little pissed off with her best friend...but thats not your problem
2006-09-01 10:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Hydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You are way too young to be a father (first mistake)
2. How difficult for the mother of your child (I hope you are
supporing the baby financially)
3. What you do is your business (you are not longer with her)
It makes me sad to see young people throw away their lives so early on - because of sex. It was not love, or you both would have waited until you were mature enough to bring a child into the world and mature enough to know that marriage is the time for sex.
I pray for you.
2006-09-01 17:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope she si going to know by her but been a 16 yr parent doesnt tell you something why you dont just keep thing straight get your self in to school better there is more time for you to be a super guy believe me and what u do after or or withother people is not meaning that u are a bad parent .Just dont have another one please you are too young and they ome expensive u know ...lol
2006-09-01 17:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that does seem sorta fuked up but if u two are over then u should do wut eva it is u wanna do, u dont owe her no explination, u dont have too report to her, you aren't non of her business n*e mo the only thing she needs to be worryin bout dat concerns u is makin sho u bein a good father to that baby. But outta respect for ur baby's mama i think u mite wanna tell her wuts goin on. Chances are she'll end up findin out some way and she mite respect u more for havin the balls to tell her.
2006-09-01 17:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have a baby and your 16? wow nice job!:( how could you do that? think about how the kid is going to grow up? you just couldn't wait till you were older. your not a man your still a kid your self! and for the other thing how the heck could you do that? your a bad father! you should be ashamed!~
2006-09-01 17:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u 2 young 2 have a baby
second of all leave your ex, best friend alone
third or all just try 2 raise your son and when he grow up dont let b like u as in flirting wit his ex, best friend.
2006-09-01 17:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not any of her business if you two have gone your seperate ways. How does her bf feel about shaggin' her bf baby daddy? I'm thinking you should focus on your future and that of your son's. Get you some salt peter boy!
2006-09-01 17:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol shagging.
Well, you DID break up with her (which is kind of sad for your baby) but highschool is a difficult way to have a baby, the relationships are really fakeish. shame on you
2006-09-01 17:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by John F. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a child at 16???!! wow, ur lifes gonna be good...well u sound like a sweet guy "shagging her best friend"....
2006-09-01 17:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by LoVE LiFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone..If you still want to have a chance for your baby. Remember that custody is based on charater references. Once they find out you screwing her best friend it over guy!
2006-09-01 17:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by Shuaib 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋