So i have this friend we've been friends ever scince 6th grade were in 9th now. and she trys to always make me jealous and my ex and her and a few other people all hang together. Me and my ex went out off and on for about 5 or 6 months and we were really good together and we still flirt all the time and lately shes been trying to make me jealous by flirting with him and its making me so mad cuz i kinda feel like hes still mine...should i just let it go?...im so confused.
2006-09-01 10:09:08 · 17 answers · asked by <3blueyedbeauty<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes let go, you'll meet plenty of other people, in ten years u won't remember these people.
2006-09-01 10:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can understand how you feel. IT is hard when you break up with someone, it is not like you can turn your feelings off or change overnight. I suggest you ignore her flirting and pretend it doesnt bother you and that will make her stop. She is not being a nice friend. Stop watching your ex, he is an ex, and try and find yourself and new person to flirt with. Dont let her bug you so much !!
2006-09-01 17:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all friend, a true friend would not be trying to make you jealous and will not be flirting with your ex. she spouse to be your friend, right. then tell her that what she is doing is not cool at all. if things don't change then that's how you know she isnt a friend any longer. it will be hard to find a new friend, better new then an old back stabber. as for your ex well if you want him then get him. honestly, he not your until you do.
2006-09-01 17:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your mind up if you want him or not,stop playing around with peoples heads and hearts. Hang out with another group,she's no friend. She's just trying to be better than you
2006-09-01 17:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should let it go. I he's your ex, he's entitled to date whomever he wishes. She could be a bit more sensitive to your feelings, but she doesn't sound like that type of person.
Don't give her the satisfaction or lose your ex's friendship by getting jealous. Be the bigger person - you'll look better to others, and you'll feel better.
2006-09-01 17:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to talk to your friend. Tell how you feel and if she continues then you just need to let that friendship go. You girls have been friends for awhile but if she intends to hurt your feeling and knows that she is doing it then it will only get worse as time goes on. Stick up for yourself tell her that you don't like it and see what happens from there.
2006-09-01 17:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is SOO hard!! believe me i've been in similar situationz. like the fact that you dont want to ket go of a good relationship. but sometimez you have to move on. itz really up 2 u
2006-09-01 17:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by xojennax3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll if shes a true friend she wouldn't get with him or do that to you.. YOu need to tell her that you still like him.. Y dont you try to get back with him
2006-09-01 17:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well if shes deliberately trying to wind you up then she isnt a mate is she? tell her hes off limits
just talk to her, she what her excuse is
2006-09-01 17:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by LoVE LiFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends NEVER decieve each other.she is a who*e or not a very good friend
2006-09-01 17:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by texaspades 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋