2006-09-01 09:49:19 · 41 answers · asked by manglebaby1983@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ask him, since he's the one that feels that way.
Don't you take that as an insult?
2006-09-01 09:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by billm_07456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by some of your previous questions (posted below), I'm wondering if you should be more concerned with your health than what your boyfriend thinks.
I'm no doctor, but I do work with them.
And from what little info I see about your previous questions, maybe the problem is feminine in nature and requires some OB/GYN exam.
Perhaps you are uncomfortable with sex because of this and that might be the reason he is unhappy with his sexual relationship with you.
But equally important is the possible fact that the two of you are having UNPROTECTED sex.
I hope you aren't pregnant - we don't need another pregnant unwed girl who's boyfriend won't be a real daddy.
I hope you don't have a venereal disease - your boyfriend might have passed something along to you (see link for further info on STD's).
And I hope you will take better care of yourself.
You only have one body, one life.
> i keep having vaganial discharge is that normal at 31 weeks?
>how does cranbarry juice take care of a uti?
>i keep feeling pressure on my pelvic area and im 31 weeks >pregnant?
2006-09-01 09:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you're old enough to be having sex, are using birth control AND STD protection, and can handle the emotional aspects of an intimate relationship...then you need to talk to him about what he doesn't like about your performance...
Ask him to show or tell you what he'd like (just as you can show or tell him what makes you feel good)...you cannot read his mind, and every person is going to like things differently so have him help you learn what he enjoys in bed...
No fair telling someone they're no good w/o giving them a chance to try to do things their partner will enjoy...few people are 'gurus' at sex without a lot of practice and some helpful tips/instruction...
2006-09-01 09:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are having problems ask him what it is that he would like better about you in bed, and when he lets you know, if you need some sexual education find some books at the shops and go threw them with him and hook each other up.
2006-09-01 09:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by tanya d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: Your boyfriend DOESN'T like how you are in bed.
Second: open your mind and try something new. And what kind of a boyfriend tells you he doesn't like you in bed?
2006-09-01 09:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by YubaMama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he doesn't like and maybe you guys could work something and only if you feel comfortable with whatever you guys do.....if you don't then the hell with him. Find some one who will like everything about you....especially in bed
2006-09-01 09:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cheesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably the shy type. Or you are probably lack of bed experience. Ask him directly and openly what kind he likes most or how he wants you to perform. Ttry to adept his taste as much if it is within your ability.
2006-09-01 09:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicating with him about it could not hurt... but it makes me wonder how he could not appreciate what you have to offer him... More than likely the problem is with him and not you... You could decide if it is worth staying with him and trying to help him or not.
You could possibly tell him about how other men were very please with you in the past if this applies... Maybe jealousy would help.... good luck.
2006-09-01 09:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by answer man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he likes. Sex should be enjoyable for both of you and as time goes on you will learn each others likes and dislikes. Just ask him to show you what he likes and show him what you like.
2006-09-01 09:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach him a lesson. just dont give him any for a while, then he'll realize that you are better than he thought and that you aren't just about all sex. if he runs off then you'll know he dont love you and he is just a fake.,
2006-09-01 09:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pregnant and he don't like it? He musta liked it okay or he wouldn't have given you that donation. But if you need practice just call me, I wont hurt the baby.
2006-09-01 09:52:41 · answer #11 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋