If someone says they love you...why would they just stop talking to you if you did nothing but love them back. I did everything for her, I helped her with anything she needed. Also it's not like we just met, we've known each other for 3 years (on and off relationship...we only broke up because we lived miles apart and niether of us had cars...but now we do and she lives 2 miles away from me). This time we were doing great, it was the best...but all of a sudden she just stopped talking to me. She wouldn't return a call, text, e-mail...nothing. But I know she's ok because one day I texted just saying "Hi" and she responded with "Hi, who's this?" So that not only tells me that she is ok and functioning...but the bad thing is that she deleted me from her phone so she doesn't WANT to talk to me. We didn't argue ever, we got along all the time, I wasn't clingy we only hung out like 3 times a week (we're both busy most of the time). What happened, someone please tell me what happened.
2006-09-01 09:45:26 · 24 answers · asked by Lex 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know you cant change what happened and how things happened,just be aware of the fact that she isnt mature enough to handle an adult relationship-Its pretty immature to avoid your calls.Best of luck-I know it sucks that some things seem to be a life lesson
2006-09-01 09:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by Colleen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I can't tell you exactly what happened. I mean to just walk away from a 3 year relationship like that is crappy. Have you tried going over to talk to her? I would text her or soemthing just asking what happened. Tell her if she didn't want to be with you anymore, the least she could have done is just tell you. But if she was so mean to just walk off, then you might not get an answer.
I would try and just move on, it will take time and hurt, but you'll be better off and you'll find someone who will love you for who you are and not what you can give them.
2006-09-01 16:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing here, except my boyfriend just dumped because I didn't do what he wanted to do. Just gotta move on. I'm with you becasue all I did to my boyfriend is love him back. I cared for him so much for 2 years, and it was just torn away from me.
Just do stuff with family and friends to keep her off your mind, and see that maybe it was the right thing to do. Go enjoy life. That is what I'm trying to do. Not to say there will be bad days. But its a big world and a lot of people.
2006-09-01 16:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by ~College Lovin~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is sad, Don't worry you will get over with it my ex boyfriend did same to me long time ago. When he found someone else he just never told me and moved on. I was so upset what happened and i found that my self after some time from him. So move on its not worth it. Email me if you need some tips and help ilbj4e@yahoo.com
2006-09-01 16:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She met someone else and moved on...sorry your heart is bruised, but you've got to take a bit to let it heal and then move on...
Some people are cowards...they'll disappear rather than putting themselves through the discomfort of breaking up with someone...it's a CRUMMY way to treat someone you supposedly care (or cared) about, but it's all too common...
She's not the one for you...and you aren't the one for her...cherish the good times, learn any lessons there were to learn...and move forward with your life toward happier times...
2006-09-01 16:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow she sucks! Thats really messed up the way she handled things as long as you two have been friends. Trust and believe I know it hurts now but you are better off without her. Your next step delete her from your phone and then your heart!
2006-09-01 16:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN this world, we have so many friendships but few genuine ones.
Those that are our so-called "friends" often use us for what they want, they fake sincereity, know how to act like they are ours forever and then turn around when they get what they want and act selfish and walk away., when they get what they want.
Trick here is to never give people like that what they want. Drop them and find genuine people instead who won't do that.
2006-09-01 16:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably found someone else. Sorry. I have some of those problems too. You'll get over it. Trust me. I loved this guy once, but he loved another girl. It took forever, but I got over him and moved on. You should do the same.
2006-09-01 16:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by sasukephan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you. Almost the same thing happened to me, about the same length of time. Sometimes you do all you can and it is still not enough. It hurst and it hurts hard.
2006-09-01 16:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has moved on and is affraid to tell you. The person that responded to your text might not have been her. Good Luck
2006-09-01 16:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by momof3isme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋