I know it's wrong to like women but I have strong feelings for the same sex and it's ruining my life, someone please tell me what I should do.
2006-09-01 09:39:22 · 37 answers · asked by Desperately Seeking Knowledge 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yes. you are gay. go to a lesbian bar, and find you a girlfriend and try out being gay.
2006-09-01 09:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Allen G 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Having feelings for the same sex does not make you gay. Especially if you are a Virgin. And it's more acceptable in today's society for women to be attracted to other women, so don't feel like your weird or anything. My wife tells me all the time when she thinks women are hot, and she has yet to have a sexual encounter with a female. And, by the way, there is NOTHING wrong with being a lesbian or gay in anyway. No matter what other people tell you, it's your life and you are free to do with it as you wish. So if later in life you do act out on your feelings, think nothing of them and just enjoy life. Good luck to you.
2006-09-01 09:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong to have feelings for the same sex. It's life. There's plenty other people out there who are lesbians and homosexuals. Get that out of your head. Yes, Your are gay.
-It's only ruining your life because your letting it ruin your life. Go out there and live it to the fullest without worring what other people say because when you don't, You'll be a happier person.
2006-09-01 09:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is not a sex act it is how you feel. If You "feel" attracted to women than you are probably gay. And no it is not wrong, it is part of who you are. I think you should see if you can get counselling. You seem to be quite young and if you feel this is ruining your life you need help.
2006-09-01 09:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are young, your hormones rage strongly, sometimes for both genders.
How is it ruining your life? Are you in prision because of it? Does being around women you are attracted to make you uncomfortable? If you are heterosexual, would your life be "ruined" if you were around men you are attracted to.
Stop focusing on sex and relationships, and focus on becoming your own person - don't let yourself be swayed into something you appear (from your comments) to think is wrong - that is your conscience talking to you - listen carefully to what it has to say. There is more to life than sex.
2006-09-01 09:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think being a virgin has anything to do with it. You are attracted to whom you are attracted to and that is the only information you need. Be happy, find someone whom you can love and enjoy life without harming others and be true to yourself. Never, ever let anyone tell you who you are is wrong and never let them tell you what you feel is wrong. To be happy is what we all strive for in life, whether we care to admit it or not.
2006-09-01 09:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by thewolfskoll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin has nothing to do with it. If you find yourself sexually attracted to different women, it's possible that you are gay. It's also possible that you have strong feelings for girlfriends and are confusing those feelings with lust. You need to figure it out by either trying it out or really examining yourself. I recommend trying it with a non-friend in case they freak out.
2006-09-01 09:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you started it off all wrong by saying "I know it's wrong to like women...", but I won't get into that too much.
Well, you have some options, you can try dating women and feel comfortable for the rest of your life, or you can pretend to like guys and never lead a self-fulfilling life in the love department - you decide.
2006-09-01 09:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was atrtracted to girls when I was a virgin too:). and dam I still am. course I am not a girl.
If you are female and attracted sexually to girls than chances are you are bi- or gay. You'll find out soon enough when they began to coem on to you, and they can tell.
You might try dating, even sex with boys to see if it satifies you. I could be just an inner thing . Many girls are attracted to other girls but have no sexual interest.
good luck
2006-09-01 09:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not gay lesbian and why should it ruin your life. if your young some people say its normal to sometimes be attracted to the same sex curiosity and so on... but just come out the closit if you feel that way! gud luck chick
2006-09-01 09:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy to answer by asking the same question in reverse. If you are a virgin but you know that you're attracted to guys, does that make you straight?
2006-09-01 09:41:35 · answer #11 · answered by ravenofchrist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋