I am 23 years old guy - and I am not ashamed still being a virgin. The purpose of this question is are you a virgin? If you are, why? Does it bother you? It would be nice to know that I not the only person in this world. ;-)
Serious Question.
2006-09-01 09:37:12 · 41 answers · asked by adrian bayler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first let me say congratulations. i wish i would have had the cajonies to stay a virgin until i got married. i believe it takes far more courage, stamina, intestinal fortitude or whatever you want to call it, to maintain your virginity.
2006-09-01 09:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 22 when I lost mine. I was ready too and don't regret it, just who it was, but what can you do. I have only been with 2 people and the 2nd was my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years.
You are not alone, when you want to and are ready you will. There is nothing wrong with waiting. I'd rather be a 23 year old virgin than a 13 year old who's out having sex.
2006-09-01 09:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 28 and a virgin as well. It doesn't bother me a bit, but it can become problematic in dating relationships. I am still a virgin because I haven't met anyone who I feel loves me enough and I love enough for them to be my first. At this rate, I might wait until marriage (which is best, as far as I'm concerned). Nope, you're not the only virgin left, and there is nothing wrong with being a virgin.
2006-09-01 09:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by clifsdi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19-year-old girl and I'm still a virgin, I don't know exactly the reason, but if I wasn't would be easier to understand why.. It doens't bother me too much, i mean I'm not thinking it all the time... Maybe the things are just went this way and maybe it's also good, in some way, maybe there's some reason for this... Good that you asked, I was thinking of asking the same... :)
2006-09-01 09:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by dippidappi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im still a virgin and im 21. I thought i wanted to wait till i was married but recently i have been having doubts about this. It does not bother me so much being a virgin more that fact sometimes feel i am missing out on something really good. i also worry that if i have a boyfriend and tell him he wont want to go out with me anymore. So far i have not been in this situation cos i have not had a boyfriend but in a way it puts me off having one, which is silly cos i do want to have a relationship. Also none of my friends, except one, knows so they just presume i am not, i dont feel i can tell them cos i think they will judge me (they make fun of another of my friends who is also still a virgin). I feel like i am out of place in todays society.
anyway ill stop rambling now
2006-09-01 10:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15 but I have never, ever regretted it. It was to an amazing person who I am still with to this day. :)
I really admire you for your cause, though. Wow. :) So many people lose it for all the wrong reasons. And because you're older and have more experience, as you say it will be all the sweeter when you do lose your virginity.
Oh, and anyone who says, "eeer ur a virgin wtf man wot a weirdo omg" is probably also a virgin, but for very different reasons. :P
2006-09-01 10:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by b3xecutioner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes im still a virgin because i still havent found the rite guy i wanna give it up to and i feel that just because you are with someone you shouldnt have to prove your love to them by having sex with them a relationship should be based only on love, trust, and respect. And no it doesnt bother me that im still a virgin because i know i aint the only one in the world whose still a virgin at the age of 19 and i also know im not a single mother who has to stay home with her kids and depend on everyone else for help not trying to offend any women out there just speaking my mind.
2006-09-01 09:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married with three kids. So no I am not a virgin. But I can say that my husband was my first even though we did it before we were married.
One thing that I have a problem with is that my husband had slept around before we did and it makes me very uncomfortable to see girls in town that know him only the way I should.
So that is a pro for you. You don't have to worry about things like that with your future wife.
2006-09-01 09:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by GillSev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a virgin, I have two very wonderful children, but I wished that I would have waited until I was married to the right person first.. It is good that you are not ashamed, you shouldn't be... good for you
2006-09-01 09:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i am still a virgin, And I am 25 years old and I will be until i find a write partner.
2006-09-01 09:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still a virgin myself at 19, hasn't bothered me so far. When the times right it will be amazing.
2006-09-01 10:19:32 · answer #11 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋