My husband and I are visting our out-of-state friend and his family for 5 days. I want to be intimate, but he doesn't think its appropriate to do so in his friends home. So, in your opinion, is it ok, or is it not?
2006-09-01 09:30:47 · 21 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes, but you need to be quiet and discreet - check to see if the mattress squeeks first, and make sure you use a towel so you don't leave a ring on the sheets.
2006-09-01 09:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
I think it is a wonderful idea as long as you are A-married & B-intimate only with your spouse alone. I LOVE being intimate with my husband when we are on trips away from home. It always seems better. I guess it is the risk of being CAUGHT!! We have done it once in a hotel with a friend in the other bed sound alseep next to us - talk about thrilling!! I am sure you can find a way to "convince" your husband.
2006-09-01 10:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll have to assess the situation when you get there. If you have ample privacy, feel free to be intimate - just remember to be considerate and discreet. You don't want everyone in the house to know your business or leave anything behind for them to find later.
2006-09-01 09:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I say yes, go for it. Ask your husband how he feels if someone does it in your home, how do you feel about it? As far as I am concerned if I don't know I don't care. Be respectful, keep it quiet and don't leave any DNA on the sheets.
2006-09-01 09:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you should of course, be very discrete but if your hubby isnt up for it (literally) then it might not happen. I say go for it but just remember to remove the sheets from the bed and place for laundering when you leave, its common courtesy to do at least this.
2006-09-01 09:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be quiet....no howling at the moon....if they don't know it happened, you're good to go! If they know how to host, they'll pull up the sheets and clean them the minute you leave anyway....
(just saying, this is what gets done when you have people stay with you, you clean the sheets before they stay and once they leave!!)
2006-09-01 09:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by cypress9silver 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-06 02:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But I can't lie I've done it before with my Husband and I find it even more fun because you have to be quite and discreet. You only live once, go for it!!!
2006-09-01 09:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is never anything inappropriate with love sweety.
If they are letting you lie like husband and wife they should expect you act like husband and wife. Although your husband sounds like he's gonna be dull, so bring a book.
2006-09-01 09:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by Billy! 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Bad form...you don't know how thick the walls are, you won't be doing the laundry...
abstain for a few days!
2006-09-01 09:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋