And now i ask him to come see me in san francisco, he said i will come for three days but you will have to spend time with me the whole time. I thouhth he is joking but now he is saying the only condition he will come reealy if i spend 48 hours with him. Should i just dump him or he just dont want to come or what.
2006-09-01 09:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry i forgot to do spell check.
2006-09-01 09:25:05 · update #1
Forget it. It won't work with the distance save yourself the heartache.
2006-09-01 09:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by S. Leroy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Allright well honestly he's saying that because you making him drive all the way over there you know. So of course I mean if I just met this guy a week ago and asked him to come drive to see me I would already expect for him to say something like that because then otherwise there would be know reason for him to go over there you feel me.
2006-09-01 09:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Charissa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is being unreasonable. If your wanting him to come there just to see you then you should be available to spend as much time as possible with him. Just make it clear ahead of time what the sleeping arrangements will be.
2006-09-01 09:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should probally find someone that lives closer to you. Starting a long distance relationship without really knowing anyone I think would be pretty hard. I would move on.
2006-09-01 09:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think love or romance hardly ever can be forced. these thing usually happen naturally ie; him saying I wanna come out and see you and you saying awsome i will clear my schedule and if i cant's you can come along and meet everyone. it's hard enough working on a relationship within the same city limits forget 2500 miles away
2006-09-01 09:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by dulsurapropia 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you asked him to spend how many thousands of dollars just to see you?
Honey, you're not worth it- I'd tell him to spend that cash in Chicago on a hooker
2006-09-01 09:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No reason to dump him
He's not yours to start with
I think that you should just use him for sex, then dump him
2006-09-01 09:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋